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Sep 7, 2024 17:42
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After four months, the offers will probably start to settle down.
As others have said, it would be great if you could build a lasting relationship with a good man early on.
I’ve heard that getting new photos taken can change your image and sometimes lead to a slight increase in offers.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
There are quite a few men who have no desire to meet a woman who has dated that many men.
They say the effect of a flyer lasts three days.
Unfortunately, a dating club may also have only three days—or at most three weeks—of freshness.
There’s also a good chance that the men you liked most were the ones who offered to meet you first.
You could always join a different club.
I hope that by accepting reality to that extent, you’ll be able to enjoy a good relationship.
I hope you make the most of these valuable offers.
Why not be the one to say, “You seem wonderful,” first?
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
It might help to leave comments and upload some selfies.
In particular, certain photos can really appeal to men, so I’d suggest choosing photos with a different vibe from the ones you took at the club.
Rather than just using the photos you think look best, try thinking about what kind of photos men would actually like to see.
How about trying photos from a trip or somewhere you’ve visited?
(The less editing, the better. If you do edit them, photos that still look natural tend to make a better impression.)
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
This is much the same as working in the adult entertainment industry.
It’s no exaggeration to say that everything in this line of work comes down to how many good people you manage to connect with through your initial offers and whether you can turn those connections into ongoing arrangements.
PATOLO recently started allowing women to state their preferred terms, but women who registered with Universe Club around three years ago tend to have more modest allowance expectations.
I get the impression that those who list more demanding allowance expectations are often new registrants who haven’t yet figured out how things work.
As for you, your newcomer period has already passed.
While you’re still receiving around three offers a month, you should realistically reassess your preferred terms and work on increasing the number of ongoing supporters.
It may sound harsh, but there isn’t much you can do to increase the number of offers.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
If he’s still coming three times a month, that’s pretty good.
Rather than looking for new supporters, think about how to maintain your relationships with the ones you already have.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If it never lasts more than three times, maybe you’re the “dead-fish” type.
You may not like the idea, but try studying men’s adult videos. I’ll study women’s adult videos too.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
With that many offers so far, haven’t you already found a good papa you click with?
If you find a good papa you can meet regularly, you can enjoy a stable, mutually beneficial relationship while receiving an allowance. Do you really still need to keep looking for new ones?
If you can’t find someone among that many offers, or can’t build a relationship that leads to something ongoing, I feel there may be a bit of an issue.
You’ve received an incredible number of offers.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You may already be doing this, but I think writing or updating your “comments from women” and “papa-katsu interviews” would help. Private photos might be a good idea too.