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Aug 23, 2024 02:05
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Even if you worry about it, it ultimately depends on how you feel. If you don’t think you can be okay with it, then it may be too much for you.
I think your only option is to work a regular job and earn money.
If you break things off, that papa will probably make an offer to another female member who’s comfortable with it, and she’ll benefit instead.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve never had a 100,000-yen kiss before, so I thought I’d like to try it once. It’s kind of exciting.
🏅 ラッキーゴールドの探査技師
関西在住で多趣味です。
最近、筋トレにて、体重は減っていないのに、ウエストは減りまくりで、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を実現しております。
スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you’re open to an adult relationship (intimate), I’m sure there are men who would give you ¥100,000.
However, if you don’t even want to kiss, there probably won’t be a second meeting. You might even get complaints after the first meeting if he’s particularly demanding.
You don’t need to force yourself. It’s not worth putting yourself through emotional distress.
Since it can lead to trouble, it’s probably best to avoid papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m confused by the phrase, “I’m Platinum.”
That would mean you’re already registered, and since you know your own class, you must have gone on at least one date. I assume the man told you your class at that time—even though that violates the rules.
If so, you have to choose your relationship type before registering, so I don’t understand why you’re now struggling with not wanting to kiss after registration. Since you chose your relationship type beforehand, if you didn’t even want to kiss, you should have selected Type A from the start.
Type A means you want dates without even kissing, so there’s no need to worry about it.
If you’re wondering whether you can receive around ¥100,000, that’s not something you can solve by worrying about it. There may be men who will give you ¥100,000, and there may not. It depends on whether the other person wants to pay that much, so worrying won’t change anything.
It’s like seriously worrying about whether you’ll win the lottery.
If you mean that you’re currently Type A but are wondering whether to switch to another type, you need to state that clearly in your question. As written, it’s impossible to tell anything. (In fact, you don’t mention your relationship type at all.)
Even if that is what you mean, if you don’t even want to kiss but choose anything other than Type A, then I think the man would be justified in calling it relationship-type fraud.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Even someone as unattractive as me would only get half that, even with Platinum or Black status.
No decent woman would ever do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), even for a million yen. So either she’s truly been driven to it by necessity, or she’s just curious.
You’re still young, so you don’t have to give up on making an honest living through your own efforts. You were born into this world to live your own life—so instead of papa-katsu, challenge yourself in life more.
Don’t take the easy way out when thinking about your future. You’re still young, and you have so much potential.
Other
First of all, if you don’t even want to kiss, wouldn’t it make more sense to stick with Type A?
If you understand how difficult it is to earn ¥100,000, you should also have some idea of whether kissing you is worth that much to them. Of course, it depends heavily on the other person’s values. For the same reason, I don’t think whether they’re in the Platinum class matters much.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Even among ordinary married women in their 40s, there are some who would say no even if they were offered a million yen.
I think you could probably find one man out of every ten or twenty offers who would give you around ¥100,000 per meeting.
Good luck ♡
Other
If you really want that ¥100,000, I think you’ll have to make your kiss worth ¥100,000 to him.
For example, you could keep him waiting and build anticipation, then get ¥100,000 for just one kiss. Or give him an incredibly pleasurable kiss.
Everyone values things differently, so there may be men somewhere who would pay ¥100,000 for a kiss. In the end, it comes down to your ability to create that value—and luck.
You could try it once and, if you still feel uncomfortable even after receiving ¥100,000, raise it to ¥150,000 next time or decide not to kiss at all. You have various options, so I think it’s best to decide based on your own stress level.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If I’d been in my twenties and desperate to save money, I would’ve even licked an old man’s asshole for ¥100,000. I’d offer that too.
I guess it comes down to how financially desperate you are and what your limits are.
If dropping out were the only alternative, you were on the verge of becoming homeless because you couldn’t pay rent, or you wanted to buy a champagne tower for your favorite host, you’d probably do anything. If things aren’t that serious, I’d say just live modestly.
If I could kiss Sakura Endo, I’d pay over ¥1 million.
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I may not be much to look at myself, but this seems like a perfectly ordinary reaction to me.
So, does that mean you’d kiss even me for ¥100,000? How absurd. Of course, I wouldn’t pay that.
You may have some genuinely urgent reason for needing the money, but in general, saying that even a below-average older man could kiss you for ¥100,000 wouldn’t be considered “seriously troubled.” If you don’t believe me, ask your papa (your biological father) or your mama (a club mama works too). On this matter, the older men are in the right. Personally, I also think that the very fact you’re asking here shows you’re not taking it seriously enough.
Your twenties are the time to lay the groundwork for your future. Surely there are plenty of things you should be worrying about more seriously.
Now, pull yourself together!