There’s a papa (a male supporter) who goes out of his way to bring a device for warming oil for an oil massage, and honestly, I find it kind of off-putting. lol
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He’s quite premature, so from my perspective, it’s nice when things are over quickly. But do papas who like using toys and other devices do it to make things last longer?
If I’m not comfortable with them being used much, is it okay to say so?
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The desire to do something intimate even if he’s paying as a papa (a male supporter), and the urge to bring toys, come from the same place.
Since it’s rooted in who he is, I think it’s better not to meet him if you find it physically unacceptable.
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It’s one thing to reveal your true self after you’ve grown close, but that only really applies to things—like certain kinks—that are difficult to talk about openly.
And if you were supposedly holding back, especially when it came to massage…
If you couldn’t tell the other person that, then it wasn’t really a relationship to begin with.
Massage isn’t just about technique and consideration; trust is also an important part of it.
My wife, as well as several women from the club, say that a good massage feels great and can be even more effective than foreplay. From a woman’s perspective, it’s not often that you can relax naked while having all sorts of areas massaged—areas you normally wouldn’t have massaged. If it’s someone you feel comfortable with, it can be relaxing and pleasurable. But with someone you don’t trust, it’s just painful, and I’d consider even the time wasted.
Also, when one of the club women is an esthetician, she’ll sometimes bring special oil and massage me while I’m naked because it makes the skin feel smoother.
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You’re using hot oil the wrong way to begin with.
Hot oil isn’t meant for massaging a woman. The proper use is to drip piping-hot oil all over a fully erect dick. It’s an incredible sensation.
Have her try it once. Once she understands that’s the correct way to use it, she should stop doing it to you.
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If you don’t like being used, I think it’s okay to say so. However, that papa (a male supporter) probably enjoys that kind of play, so once he realizes you don’t like being used, he may lose interest and start looking for a woman who does—or who can at least make him feel that she does.
With that in mind, I think you should consider how far you’re willing to accommodate him and what you’re able to tolerate.
If it’s painful enough that you have to endure it, you should end the relationship. But if you simply don’t like toys and it isn’t actually painful, you could also choose to continue going along with his preferences.
> Do papas who want to use toys and other items do it just to kill time?
If you think about what the man would gain by simply killing time, it seems obvious that he wouldn’t go out of his way to do that.
He enjoys being affectionate and playful with women, and toys are simply part of that for him.
As for the oil massage, he may be doing it as a service for you. If it makes you uncomfortable, it may be okay to tell him so. However, if you also seem to be enjoying it during the massage, then it’s probably part of the play.
You should decide based on whether it falls within what you can tolerate and whether it causes you genuine discomfort.
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Of course, no problem. Case solved!
That answer feels a little cold, though.
Hmm, presumably Papa is bringing some kind of heavy-duty device because he thinks he’s doing you a favor. He probably wants you to feel good and experience more intense sensations.
So whatever you do, don’t say what you’re really thinking: “This thing is gross, you old geezer!” He might get sulky and make the whole situation even more troublesome.
Instead, you could respond with a little erotic teasing. For example, wear open-crotch underwear, quickly take off your skirt, spread yourself with your index and middle fingers, and say, “I don’t need a massage or toys. I’m already this wet.”
(If you don’t get wet easily, apply some lube beforehand.)
Too much?
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