Regarding when to bring up the allowance for an adult relationship (intimate):
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For C- and D-type women, I assume people usually feel out the timing during or after dinner and say things like:
“What would you like to do after this?”
“Do you have a preferred amount?”
“Would 50,000 yen for an adult relationship work for you?”
For a B-type woman, would it be considered rude to ask or suggest the desired allowance for an adult relationship in case things progress during the very first dinner?
Of course, I imagine it depends on the woman, but I’m curious how everyone else handles this. I’d especially appreciate answers from female respondents as well.
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With dating type B2, agreeing to meet a second time generally means the relationship will develop further, so I work out all the details during the first meeting.
With dating type B1, I first enjoy the meal, then ask toward the end whether we’d like to continue meeting. If everything seems fine, I discuss the allowance for both dinner only and for when the relationship develops further.
I’ve never clearly had this approach backfire, but I think it depends on the person, so please take other people’s answers into consideration as well.
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With a Type B arrangement, I don’t discuss the allowance.
With Type B1, I won’t bring up or invite her to an adult relationship, no matter how many times we meet.
With Type B2, I’ll ask on the first day whether she’d be open to meeting again, and I take that as meaning she’s open to an adult relationship. If the second meeting goes well and the mood is right, things naturally progress in that direction.
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Whether a woman finds it rude varies from person to person, but I consider it disrespectful, so with B1 women, I don’t bring up an adult relationship (intimate) until she brings it up and indicates that she’d be open to it.
With B2 women, like “Anzenchitai,” I mention the allowance as something for her to consider when deciding whether to meet again, prefacing it by saying that it would only apply if she felt comfortable with that kind of relationship.
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With B2, I bring up an adult relationship (intimate) on the first meeting, because otherwise she can’t decide whether she wants to meet a second time.
With B1, I don’t mention an adult relationship (intimate) during the first meeting. I focus on making sure she’ll agree to see me again.
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