I sometimes deliberately act jealous to make my papa (a male supporter) think I’m genuinely in love with him.
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I’ll do things like get jealous or call him asking, “What are you doing?”—basically acting like a slightly clingy, high-maintenance girlfriend.
It’s worked with some people in the past, but could it actually be having the opposite effect?
I’d appreciate answers other than “it depends on the person.”
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Even with men who say it’s counterproductive, the approach can work if you handle it well.
People don’t see themselves objectively. They conveniently dismiss anything unexpected as an exception. That’s just how people are.
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This is “0603 Osaka-Tokyo,” a new respondent.
I’ve been a member for six years now, but phone calls can be a bit of a hassle.
I can understand being asked things like, “Are you seeing anyone else?” when you first meet or on the second date. But when someone starts playing weird mind games, it puts me off.
I once met an extremely positive woman who said, “If I can make you feel that spending time with me is more fun than seeing other girls, you’ll naturally end up seeing only me, right?”
I actually continued seeing her for over a year.
When she messages me on a day we don’t have plans, saying, “I’m free one evening this week, and I don’t need an allowance—I’d love to go out for some good food together!” it makes me want to somehow find the time for her.
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It has the opposite effect.
Coming on too strong with the business side of things is a huge turnoff. If you act that way, I’ll never invite you out again.
Being jealous because you’ve genuinely fallen for someone while still accepting an allowance is simply contradictory. It makes you look like a hostess who’s bad at playing the customer, and that’s not what I’m looking for at all.
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In my case, it’s worked 100%—but I think that’s because the man I’m seeing was never the type who wanted to constantly switch between multiple women.
I probably wouldn’t get jealous in the first place with someone who would find that kind of thing annoying.
As for me, I genuinely do feel an ugly kind of jealousy, but I think I’m pretty good at expressing it in a cute way. My papa probably has no idea how messy things really are inside my head.
So unless you let your true feelings slip, I think you should be fine continuing as you are.
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It clearly depends on the person and the relationship.
Personally, I’d see it as nothing but something that could damage the relationship. If it were a woman I saw very frequently, I might be able to tolerate it, but otherwise it would feel like too much trouble, and I’d probably stop replying.
Even with a woman I’m close to, if her jealousy had been annoying, I doubt we would have become this close in the first place.
Also, if there were no signs of genuine romantic feelings in her words or actions apart from the jealousy, the man would probably just see her as an overly jealous person.
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Still, I’ll dare say it: it depends on the person.
If you’re enjoying playing that kind of character, then I guess there’s nothing wrong with it. Just don’t overdo it—it can get annoying and even creepy.
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