How do male members feel about giving money to women?
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Does it make them happy to know they’re providing some support, or satisfy their desire to look after someone? Or do they ever have negative feelings about it?
Do they use money to maintain a clear boundary so things don’t become complicated?
I’m sure everyone feels differently, but I’d appreciate hearing your thoughts.
Sometimes it does feel like you’re being shaken down. Some papa-katsu women are stealth delinquents who don’t even realize they’re acting like yankees.
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I enjoy being supported, but I don’t have any desire to protect or take care of someone.
By paying, papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) works—putting it nicely, lol. To put it bluntly, I pay them, so they’ll have sex with someone my age—around their father’s age.
That’s how I see it.
I just wish I’d been born a handsome older guy who could have sex, lol.
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Like the other respondents, I don’t have any particularly strong feelings about it.
For example, do you feel protective or experience any negative emotions when it’s time to pay for a meal?
A restaurant might look impressive from the outside, but if the food turns out to be less delicious than expected, you might think it was all appearances. Or if the food at a restaurant you frequent happens to be worse than usual that day, you might wonder what went wrong.
Things like that may happen, but I don’t think I feel anything in particular about simply eating and paying the bill.
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If the woman asks me for financial support, I might feel that way, but otherwise, I don’t particularly think anything when I give her the allowance. At least, that’s how it is for me.
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I don’t feel any particular joy from supporting someone, a desire to protect them, or any negative emotions.
It’s more like offering an actress a role in a play and paying her an appearance fee. Most of the time, it ends after one performance, but if we hit it off, it turns into regular performances.
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At the beginning of meeting someone, I think you experience all kinds of feelings.
Most of the club women I’m seeing now are people I’ve met hundreds of times, so I don’t feel any of those emotions anymore.
The moment we meet, it simply becomes an enjoyable time together—that’s all it feels like.
There is one woman, though, for whom I think my desire to protect her, especially financially, will remain until that need is resolved.
Even after a first date, most club women rarely make you want to see them a second or third time, and almost none make you want to keep seeing them five or six times or more.
So when you still want to see someone after more than 100 meetings and the relationship continues, I wonder whether some uncontrollable, indescribable feeling must be enduring.
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