Tips Jul 24, 2024 15:47

I assume most people start with dinner, but what kind of relationship are women ultimately looking for?

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① Dinner only ② Sex only ③ Sex plus dinner Some women list their dating type as A to B1, but the allowance for dinner only probably isn’t very much. If you want to make money quickly, wouldn’t a sex-only arrangement be the most cost-effective? To begin with, it seems unpleasant and unfortunate for both people when a man and woman who aren’t particularly interested in each other—and don’t have much in common because of their age difference—have to sit together over dinner for hours. I’m busy and often have trouble matching schedules, so ideally, a sex-only arrangement would suit me best. Are there many women who are looking for that kind of relationship?
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I mainly go for dating Type B, so it’s basically either ① or ③ for me. That said, I’m sure there are women who prefer ②, since many people are also registered with Universe Club.
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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Some men and women may think the way you do, and there may be more of them than you realize. That said, if what you’re looking for is something immediate, adult entertainment venues or hostess cafés may suit you better than a dating club. I feel the opposite of you, which is why I see value in dating-club relationships. I believe that when two people are compatible enough to enjoy spending long periods of time together, they can have fun wherever they go and feel comfortable even in an adult relationship (intimate). As for the women in point ③, I don’t think there are actually that many who want an adult relationship every time they meet, even though they may not be able to tell men how they really feel.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I think it’s mostly option ③. If it’s B2, C, or D, that’s probably the case. I believe the purpose of a dating club is also to get to know each other and become closer. That makes things more enjoyable in many ways. A and B1 would probably be option ①.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Why not just go to a sex service? If you’re not willing to make an effort to meet people halfway, you probably won’t get along with anyone.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
It depends on the woman. Some women do want money quickly, and genuinely find spending a long time together painful. For those women, I think keeping it to just the room is fine. That said, I think a lot of women want to enjoy a delicious meal and feel valued. Many judge their own status by the kind of restaurant they’re taken to. Also, when a woman’s appetite is satisfied with a good meal, her desire tends to rise too. Restaurants with beautiful views can really lift the mood, and I see dinner as foreplay. Since it improves the quality of the intimacy afterward, Fuu’s theory is that if a papa wants things to get exciting, he should start by putting effort into the meal. Of course, Fuu also simply enjoys going out to places with a great atmosphere and delicious food. Good food, good drinks, a beautiful view, a pleasant setting, plus a gorgeous woman—that’s the ultimate combination, and I consider it a real luxury. And afterward, you get to be intimate with that beautiful woman. Wow, this activity really is the best. I can’t quit lol
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