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Jul 23, 2024 20:13
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
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For a first dinner, the smoothest approach is to meet at the restaurant and hand her an envelope with the allowance as soon as you meet, saying, “Thanks for today.”
If you’re not in a private room, people around you might overhear, and she probably isn’t expecting some flashy line anyway. Just keep it simple and casual, lol.
Once you’ve had a few papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) experiences here, I think you’ll figure out your own go-to approach—or what works best for you.
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To make sure I don’t forget, I hand it over as soon as we meet, saying, “This is for your transportation.” I tried various ways, but in the end, I started putting it in a small envelope because I felt self-conscious about people around us watching.
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🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s
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I put the money in small envelopes that fit banknotes.
After greeting each other, I immediately say, “This is for your transportation,” and hand it over on the table. I treat it much like giving someone an honorarium for a business meeting.
I do the same if we decide to extend the date. That’s why I prepare two envelopes in advance—one for transportation and one for the extension.
Age: Private
👨 Male
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I think the smoothest approach is to wait until the server isn’t looking, thank her for coming, and discreetly hand her the travel money in a small envelope.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
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Send the allowance via PayPay on your phone?
Or would it be more romantic to fold the bills into paper airplanes and fly them over?
Digital or analog?