https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/16819
Even if I become a member of Universe Club, am introduced to a female member, make her an offer, and actually meet her for meals or dates, my preference and intention toward the female members is as follows:
“If we go on several dates and feel that we’re compatible, I would like the relationship to develop further. In that case, I would like us to date as a romantic couple. However, even if the relationship does develop into a romantic relationship, I absolutely do not want to have a physical relationship.”
(I have made a slight addition to the wording I used in my previous three questions.)
In response to my previous questions, regular respondents in the Q&A section have given answers such as:
“It would be best to make an offer to a female member with Relationship Type A.”
However, I believe that among the female members with Relationship Type B1, there are also quite a few who have the following preference and intention:
“If we go on several dates and feel that we’re compatible, I would like the relationship to develop further. In that case, I would like us to date as a romantic couple. However, even if the relationship does develop into a romantic relationship, I absolutely do not want to have a physical relationship.”
In that case, would it be possible to be introduced to a female member with Relationship Type B1 who has this preference and intention?
Also, this may be more of an opinion or request, but could you please revise the categories from Relationship Type A through Type D, as well as the detailed explanations of each type, in the following section:
“Universe in Data: Male Members”
https://universe-club.jp/men/male-data/
Specifically, I would like the categories and explanations in “Ranking of Relationship Types Men Make Offers To” to be divided into more detailed categories and explained more specifically.
As I wrote above, there are presumably female members with Relationship Type B1 who have the following preference and intention:
“If we go on several dates and feel that we’re compatible, I would like the relationship to develop further. In that case, I would like us to date as a romantic couple. However, even if the relationship does develop into a romantic relationship, I absolutely do not want to have a physical relationship.”
(It is also possible that some female members with Relationship Type B2 may feel that they do not want to have a physical relationship even if the relationship develops into a romantic one.)
I would sincerely appreciate it if you would consider this request.
It seems you’ve been asked this a few times.
Everyone has different expectations for a relationship, so rather than making specific requests of the club, I think the best way to find a good arrangement is to first meet the people you’re interested in and discuss things with them directly.
I can only speak from my own experience, but when I was registered as a Type B, about 10% of the people who made me offers said they were fine with there being no physical relationship. One person also told me that he didn’t want a physical relationship. We enjoyed going out for meals together.
People like that do exist, so I don’t think you necessarily have to tell the club every single detail upfront.
I hope you meet someone wonderful!
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Um…
You gave a pretty long explanation, lol, but it’s not really that the club introduces someone to you. You choose from the profiles, so couldn’t you simply choose from the Type A women who say from the outset that they don’t want an intimate relationship?
If you don’t find anyone you like among the Type A women, or if there’s someone outside Type A whom you really want to make an offer to, you could have the club staff ask her when you make the offer whether she’d be okay with your request—not wanting an intimate relationship—and then proceed based on her answer.
I think women would agree if you paid the same allowance as you would for an intimate relationship.
You’re so opposed to intimacy, but are the Type A women alone not enough for you? If you’re saying there aren’t many registered women, why not just look on your own, use a dating app, or attend婚活 parties?
Although… I don’t really get it. Women have sexual desires too, and sex can be a way of expressing affection. It can also bring you closer and help you bond, and all those endorphins are good for your health, lol.
A man who says he won’t have an intimate relationship doesn’t seem very attractive, does he?
The “gift girls” and dinner-only girls in papa-katsu would probably be happy as long as you paid them without expecting an intimate relationship.
Maybe papa-katsu through an app would suit you better.
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> If you want to date someone as a romantic partner,
you’ll find it much faster and more efficiently somewhere else.
The basic premise of a dating club is that people are there because they want an allowance—not because they’re looking for a romantic relationship.
Of course, meeting someone anywhere can potentially lead to a romantic relationship or marriage. But unfortunately, the chances at a dating club are far lower than at places like snack bars—not zero, but not much different from the odds in the adult entertainment industry.
Rather than waste your time, you’d be better off looking elsewhere.
And yet, whether they didn’t read that or were just trolling…
Well, I suppose that’s fine too…
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He comes across as an older guy who isn’t popular with women but has some strange obsessions and his own personal code. That’s the impression I get.
He’s the kind of guy who’d get seriously lectured by a middle-aged female staff member at a matchmaking agency.
Women can’t be neatly categorized. They’re creatures whose moods change.
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