Tips Jun 2, 2024 09:03

I’m the man who asked, “Even if I became a member, would I be able to tell female members that I’m not looking for an intimate relationship?”

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I have a follow-up question. After reading the answers from the respondents and browsing this site, I now understand that female members have five different dating types, ranging from Type A to Type D. Personally, even if things were to develop into a relationship with a female member, I would not want to have an adult relationship (intimate). I would also prefer a female member who likewise does not want to have an adult relationship (intimate) with a male member, even if their relationship develops further. As I understand it, Dating Type B is divided into two types: B1 and B2. B1 means “taking things slowly”—there is a possibility of developing a relationship after several dates if both people feel they are compatible. B2 means “starting from the second meeting”—the first meeting is dinner only, with the possibility of developing a relationship from the second meeting onward. Of the three types from A through B2, I would like to be introduced to a female member who does not want an adult relationship (intimate) with a man, even if the relationship develops further. Is it possible to be introduced to someone like that? Also, if I were introduced to such a female member and we actually met for dinner or a date, would I be able to tell her about my wishes? Furthermore, when meeting a female member in person, would it be possible, for confirmation, to hear her say that “Even if we go from dinner to dating, feel compatible, and our relationship develops, I would not want to have an adult relationship (intimate) with a male member,” and then discuss it together and make sure we both agree before going out for dinner or on a date?
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I think it would be difficult to simply try to communicate only what you want. Even women in Category A generally wouldn’t join a club unless they had a compelling reason or urgent circumstances. Whatever their type, money in the form of an allowance is part of why they’re there. So I believe the first priority should be trying to understand their circumstances and making sure they can genuinely feel the benefits of the arrangement. Without that, it would be difficult to build the enjoyable relationship that fulfills your desires. If you keep that in mind, as I mentioned in my previous answer, it’s entirely possible to be warmly welcomed regardless of their type—and you may even earn their respect.
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Type A, and usually B1 as well, should be fine without any particular issues. With B2 or C, many women may expect an allowance for an adult relationship (intimate) if you click, so I think it’s better to mention that when making the offer. Even with B2 or C, if it’s dinner only (no intimacy) and you offer a generous allowance, they may be happy to accept. This is just my experience, but I’ve come to enjoy dining together, so there are times when I choose dinner only—and I’ve had no problems even with women who were Type C. For reference, regardless of their dating type, when it’s dinner only, I generally offer the amount specified by the Universe rules. There are also times when I give a little extra for various reasons. ※When the initial arrangement is dinner only, I also make sure to discuss and get the woman’s agreement regarding the allowance for subsequent meetings. ※Some corrections, including typos, have been made.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Isn’t that what they call Dating Type A? I think you should only make offers to women who are registered as Dating Type A. If you want to make sure you both discuss things and agree on the terms first, it would be more reliable for you to register as a Black-class member, make an offer through a letter date, and communicate directly by message.
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Meg
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Age: 50s 👩 Female Former Universe member
Of course you can. And honestly, I think the girls might appreciate that more, too. Personally, I’m definitely the all-in type♡ (Not that anyone asked.)
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