I’ve dated younger women in their 20s and 30s, but sometimes we didn’t have much in common. I’ve also experienced poor manners, inappropriate language, and sudden cancellations without any notice.
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Because of the age gap, I made allowances and put up with it to some extent, thinking that they were young and it couldn’t be helped. However, I lost my wife a few years ago, and now that I’m over 60, I’d like to have meals and spend time with women around my age—women in their 50s, or even 60s if I meet someone wonderful.
I’ve contacted several dating clubs for middle-aged and older people, but they felt more like matchmaking services for finding a second spouse, which didn’t appeal to me. For the record, I have no intention of getting married.
Would it be possible to make an offer to a woman in her 50s or 60s from among Universe’s female members?
👤Asked byGuest👨GenderMale🎂60s👑Universe male member
If being older means having good manners and a good personality, then the world of people over 75 would be like heaven—full of nothing but kind-hearted people.
If only that were true, haha. World peace.
By all means, keep making offers to women in their 40s and up, and become an ideal supporter for older women.
You could look for them at senior citizens’ events, neighborhood association activities, or gateball games. It wouldn’t cost you anything, and you’d probably find women around the age range you’re aiming for.
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Oh my… so there are male members like that, too. What a lovely, hopeful question for those of us in our 50s.
If you’re interested, I’d be delighted to receive an offer from you, addressed to Meg, the respondent.♡
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You can also make offers to people in their 50s and older. For the search, just select “40 and over” in the age settings.
Once you reach a certain age, it’s better not to get involved with someone who undermines your self-esteem. If they’re 50 or older, I imagine there are probably some who have a reasonable amount of common sense. I’ve never actually made an offer to anyone in that age group, though.
It sounds like your goal is less an adult relationship (intimate) and more simply a relationship between consenting adults. Keeping that in mind, why not review their profiles carefully before making an offer?
Best of luck.
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The problem is that the person you’re dealing with feels comfortable canceling on you at the last minute without even contacting you.
No one would treat someone they truly needed that way.
Given your situation, I think you should be able to enjoy yourself with younger women to your heart’s content…
But for that to happen, the woman also needs to have such a good time with you that the hours simply fly by.
Women in their 50s or 60s have plenty of life experience, so they may judge you even more strictly…
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I’ve met more than 100 women in their 20s and 30s, several hundred times in total, and in all that time, I’ve only had two or three sudden cancellations—with notice—from women I’d been seeing for over a year. I’ve never experienced a cancellation without any notice.
Setting aside simply not clicking, if someone has poor manners or language, or suddenly cancels without notice, isn’t it possible that the questioner is choosing the wrong people—or that their own attitude is the problem?
I’m not convinced that changing the age group alone will solve anything.
That aside, as Seattle-san explained, it is possible to make offers to women in their 50s and 60s. Any male member would know that, so are you really a male member?
Perhaps the reason women treat you so casually is that you keep asking questions about things that should be obvious. Rather than blaming everything on the other person, you might want to take a hard look at yourself.
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