I’m the person who asked yesterday after noticing something resembling a small piece of broccoli near the man’s anus.
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After looking it up online, I learned that genital warts are a type of sexually transmitted infection.
I don’t have a boyfriend and only have sexual relations with my papa-katsu partner. Is it possible that men who do papa-katsu also have relationships with their wives or other women, or visit sex-work establishments, and end up passing an STI to someone?
I’m scared of STIs, so I think I’ll turn him down if he invites me again. I’m also planning to visit a gynecologist soon to get tested and make sure I haven’t contracted anything.
Still, it scares me to think that he didn’t realize he had genital warts near his anus—or that they were a type of STI.
When a man makes an offer to a woman, I assumed he would do so only on the premise that he didn’t have an STI, so I’m shocked.
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I can’t help laughing at how you introduced yourself as “the person who asked yesterday after noticing something resembling a broccoli floret near the other man’s anus.” It’s been making me grin since yesterday.
If you came in using that name every time, people here would probably start saying, “Oh, the broccoli-by-the-anus person is back again!”
Putting that aside, what happened this time was really unfortunate. Even if you’re only active through a dating club, you’ll probably try various partners until you settle on someone, so the infection risk is relatively high. I think regular testing is essential. Also, I suspect men have a low testing rate. Whenever I go to a clinic, it’s almost all women. I stand out so much that I’m considering going in drag next time.
Taro
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I think people involved in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) who frequently visit sex-service establishments are in the minority.
Also, you can find out right away by searching Google. None of the answerers here are doctors, so if you want detailed information, please look it up on Google.
Personally, I feel that sexually transmitted infections may actually be more common in papa-katsu than in sex-service establishments.
Many men seem to think that pregnancy is impossible as long as they don’t ejaculate inside without protection, so I think a lot of them may not realize that those bumps are a sexually transmitted infection.
There are probably even people who make offers while taking medication for syphilis, so please be very careful. I’m sure all the women involved understand the risks to some extent.
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>Could men doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) also be seeing a wife or other women besides me, or visiting sex-work establishments and contracting an STI that they then pass on to me?
Of course, that’s certainly a possibility.
But as you continue seeing someone, you gradually get a sense of what their lifestyle is like, right?（笑）
I don’t think STIs are all that common, but cases like this have been reported in the past as well. Since this activity goes hand in hand with the risk of STIs, please be very careful.
You’re all young and have your whole lives ahead of you.
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