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Jan 24, 2024 07:35
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I guess you really can’t let your guard down, just like at work. Checking LINE is mentally exhausting too—how does everyone else deal with it?
Although, I suppose I have it relatively easy since I only get messages about plans and appointments.
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Other
Are you aware that bullying can happen on LINE?
If you leave someone’s messages unanswered, you can’t complain if they say goodbye. It’s your own fault.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
The woman is the one who messages me on LINE.
Even women who don’t message me every day will reach out if something changes, and they’ll also ask when we’re going to meet again.
I think the reason you feel you can’t let your guard down, just as you can’t at work, is because that’s the kind of person you’re seeing and that’s the kind of relationship you have.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s probably because you’re seeing someone you feel that way about.
Ideally, you should be with someone who doesn’t make you feel emotionally burdened.
Right now, though, it seems like the two of you simply don’t understand each other’s feelings as men and women.
In my case, I almost never send the agreed-upon details first, so I’m usually the one replying. Maybe it’s because there’s no need for the woman to reply immediately, or because I’m the one who asked in the first place—but I often get a reply within seconds.
Men give an allowance to women they personally like, so the woman receiving it needs to show considerable consideration—enough to be appreciated as a papa. I feel that meeting someone like that would probably be ideal.
Meg
Female
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🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I used to be a female member.
Those follow-up messages are such a hassle, aren’t they? Do they really test you if you don’t reply right away? It’s not like you’re an employee at your papa’s company. Talk about hard work.
Still, if you want to keep doing it… well, I suppose you do need to make a certain amount of effort, since it all depends on your papa always being in a good mood.
I know it probably feels like a job, but maybe you should look for a papa you don’t have to be so careful around.
Though I say that as someone who doesn’t even exchange LINE contacts with mine.
Haha!