The Mindset of a Man Who Won’t Give You Any Money

Question

I was talked into accepting, “I don’t want a relationship involving money with you, so I’m not going to give you any.” To explain how it happened, we happened to meet and ended up going to a hotel. We kissed. At the time, he said something like, “I don’t have money-based relationships with anyone, so I’m not giving you any either. If you’re going to ask for money, then we should break up.” But the more I’ve seen him, the more I’ve realized he just seems like an old man to me. He’s condescending about everything and looks down on people. He gets angry when I talk about other men, even though he has casual partners himself, so I’m thinking of cutting things off. Does this mean I’m just a convenient woman to him?

Answer 1

Just make it work in a way that’s convenient for both of you, haha.

Answer 2

A “convenient woman” usually means a woman who goes along with a man’s selfish demands and does all sorts of things for him, including having sex. In this case, though, she didn’t agree to his request to have sex without him paying, so from my perspective, that description doesn’t fit. Even if she’s doing other things for him, she may be holding back because he hasn’t paid her—or because she has doubts about his character. All she’s saying is that she can’t meet him because they can’t be together as boyfriend and girlfriend. Also, are you using your own name in the “〇〇” placeholder? It would be easier to understand if you simply wrote “I” instead of using a placeholder.

Answer 3

I don’t think there’s anything to call convenient or inconvenient about a relationship that only ended up at a hotel because things just went that way. It’s not really serious enough to talk about cutting things off or not. From that man’s perspective, you’re probably just “the woman who went to a hotel with him but wouldn’t sleep with him.”

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