Doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) has made me lose my daytime values and sense of normalcy.
I can’t get hired anywhere. Even though I dress normally and keep things modest, interviewers treat me like they’ve already given up from the start and look down on me.
Why can’t I shake off this “nightlife” aura?
People with a strong nightlife vibe aren’t usually that popular in papa-katsu.
I’m guessing you also worked in the adult entertainment or hostessing business, didn’t you?
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I don’t think your nighttime aura or clothing has much to do with it.
Everyone has two sides to them. The person who interviewed you for the job is probably just like your papa (a male supporter). It’s simply that, since they’re interviewing you for work, they’re asking about work-related things.
I don’t know what kind of job you’re looking for, but I think you should just answer their questions about work.
There are plenty of difficult jobs, but there are also many jobs that are easy and not too demanding. If you apply for a job that other people tend to avoid, you may have a better chance of getting accepted.
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If you’ve been able to quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), perhaps the memories will gradually fade with time.
You crossed a certain line once, so you can’t put things back exactly as they were.
That said, you must have gained a lot from the experience, along with its benefits. I think it’s best to move forward into the next stage of your life.
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