If it’s just coffee or tea, wrap it up within 30 minutes.
Honestly, it’ll leave a better impression and make it more likely that the arrangement continues if you go for a meal—ideally somewhere with great food and a nice atmosphere.
Most people will dislike being asked to buy condoms together, so buy them yourself and have them ready.
And the more money, the better, haha.
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If you want women to like you,
take them out for a meal.
Tell her, “Come hungry,”
and don’t you want to enjoy the food she likes together?
If the first meeting is just coffee, your likability takes a nosedive,
and the conversation becomes pretty limited too.
If I were a woman,
I’d lose interest right from the start.
The idea of buying condoms together should only come up
after you’ve met several times and gotten to know each other.
Do you really think a woman wants to do that with a man she’s meeting for the first time?
It’s me.
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This answer may come across as sarcastic—but it is, in fact, intentionally sarcastic.
Confucius said, “At forty, one is no longer perplexed.”
I’ll be turning sixty next year, yet I’m still wandering around, constantly confused. That said, there are limits to everything. After reading your post, I couldn’t help thinking, “Are you in elementary school? Go ask your mom.” Read the Analects aloud before going on a date.
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Why does this bizarre option of “buying it together” even come up...?
It’s not like we’re boyfriend and girlfriend.
He’s a papa-katsu guy. Please act with some class and don’t put him in an awkward position.
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I think you should bring whatever amount you feel is appropriate as an allowance. If you’re prepared to pay whatever amount she asks for, bringing ¥1 million should generally be enough.
Unless you’re planning on buying condoms together—a move that probably won’t go over well with her—I’d recommend purchasing them in advance.
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In my experience, women generally respond better when you prepare the allowance in advance.
Since the allowance really varies from person to person, I think it’s fine to bring the maximum amount you’re comfortable with, plus some extra cash just in case.
If you find that the amount is more than your personal limit, just walk away.
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