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Dec 27, 2023 15:47
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Even if it’s a transactional relationship, I want to be treated like a romantic partner while we’re together. I’m looking for a woman who offers good value for the allowance.
I’m not looking for someone who just lies there and goes through the motions.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
What you’re feeling is probably that you’re treating it as a transactional relationship and enjoying yourself for money, isn’t it…
👨 Male
Universe member
I’d rather be seen as an ordinary older guy—or, well, an old man—who she enjoys spending time with, rather than as someone she sees as a plaything or romantic interest. Of course, I do give her an allowance and we have an adult relationship too（笑）
We’ll soon have been together for six years. We rarely go shopping or stroll around town, but we get along well—quietly and modestly, perhaps, yet firmly connected—over drinks, meals while catching up, and the occasional upscale restaurant（笑）
She no longer really needs papa-katsu, and I’m sure having money is better than not having it, but she still hasn’t left me（笑）
Other
My papa (a male supporter) is short himself, but he likes tall, slim women. He always thinks women in their twenties are into him (lol).
I’ve advised him that if he gives them plenty of money, they’ll like him a lot. He’s such a crappy papa, but he gives me a lot of money, so I can’t bring myself to cut him off.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I can’t speak for other men, but I honestly have no interest in whether I’m seen as a romantic prospect, and it’s never really crossed my mind.
What does matter to me is whether I’m liked as a person—not as a man or a woman. It’s less about chemistry between the sexes and more about compatibility between two people. It’s the same in business: if I feel our values don’t align on some fundamental level, I cut ties completely, regardless of gender.
At my age, I have no intention of constantly adjusting myself to suit someone else. If I feel that the other person is forcing themselves to accommodate me, I’ll step back and end things from my side as well. People like that disappear from my memory, too.
I’m looking for women I can have enjoyable sex with, without putting myself under stress.
Every now and then, I meet a young woman who tells me, “I like you.” But honestly, I don’t know what to make of it—I’m really not interested. That includes whether those words are sincere or simply made up.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
You’ve got the wrong idea. Why do you assume I’m specifically looking through an exclusive dating club?
I’m looking for a woman who sees me as a romantic prospect—in other words, someone who actually comes to like me. I’m not limiting my search to dating clubs.
I’m looking in every direction. Every direction.
A dating club is just one part of that—and only comes into the picture if, by chance, some chemistry happens to develop.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Why do you insist on reducing it to two options?
I think some people feel that falling genuinely in love is scary and troublesome, but that simply buying sex feels empty. If anything, I think those are the kinds of people who come to dating clubs.
Also, I think what someone is looking for can vary depending on the woman. For example, what I feel I get from my relationship with A is different from what I feel I get from B.