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Dec 23, 2023 03:49
I have a question about allowance.
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Ideally, the more money, the better, of course. But between asking for a low amount (3), the going rate (5), or a high amount (7), which do you think is the best option?
I know opinions are divided, but my intuition tells me that asking for a lower amount makes it much easier to keep the relationship going and makes it far less likely that he’ll drop me (which is only natural).
Of course, it would be a different story if I could reach my monthly target with just one generous (well-paying) papa (a male supporter), but arrangements like that are pretty rare.
It wouldn’t bother me if every papa offered the same fixed allowance to every girl. But a lot of papas change the allowance depending on the girl, don’t they?
For example, one papa said, “She was so beautiful that I thought she was worth paying 5 for.” And when I asked him whether he would have paid if I had asked for more, he said, “I could probably give you around 4 at most.”
When I say 5, I worry that it might seem too expensive to him, so I end up quoting a lower amount.
The higher the allowance, the higher his expectations tend to be. Also, papas who offer 5 or more often want a romantic relationship.
Personally, papas who give me 5 or more take a lot of time—around 8 to 10 hours—and I have to put a lot of energy into emotional support. That makes me even more likely to quote a lower amount.
When I ask for less, they usually don’t try to keep me tied up for as long, and perhaps they assume I have other papas too. It’s mentally easier for me.
Should I ask for too much at the first meeting and risk it ending after just once, go with the going rate and meet less frequently, or ask for slightly less than the going rate and aim for a higher total amount each month?
Of course, the ideal would be to receive more than the going rate and meet frequently each month. But realistically, I feel the chances of being that well-liked by a papa are pretty low.
(There seem to be various exceptions, but I asked the staff at Universe about realistic market rates, and they confirmed that papas who offer more than the going rate are in the minority.)
Sorry for the long post.
