My understanding is that dating clubs are mainly for wealthy men to register with. Do you generally use them as a place to find someone for casual fun?
Doctors, for example, often marry attractive women as partners for fun, but choose wealthy heiresses as their wives. Is it that kind of mindset?
Is it a transactional relationship?
I think I use a dating club because I’d be uncomfortable if it turned into a serious romantic relationship.
It’s a transactional relationship, but while we’re on a date, I’m genuinely invested.
It’s me.
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Since this is papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), with money involved, it would be a problem if either of us developed genuine feelings, wouldn’t it?
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Wealthy doctors often have wives who are beautiful, intelligent, and from good families too. It really makes you think, “Even with such a gorgeous wife, you still fool around?”
Of course, they join dating clubs looking for a transactional relationship.
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My activities through the dating club are strictly a transactional relationship, but I don’t see them as just playing around.
I’d describe it as “spending time with a lovely young woman.”（笑)
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There’s no fixed definition of “the wealthy,” so I’m not sure what kind of people you mean by that. But I don’t think they’re necessarily all wealthy.
I consider people with financial assets worth several billion yen or more to be wealthy, so I don’t consider myself wealthy.
As long as you can pay an admission fee of ¥30,000–¥300,000 and a matching fee of ¥20,000–¥100,000, you can use a dating club.
I use dating clubs to find people to have fun with, and I think many other men do the same. When it turns into what’s commonly called a serious romantic relationship, allowance usually gets in the way, regardless of whether you’re male or female.
In fact, once you become quite close and the woman starts developing genuine feelings, she often tells me that she doesn’t need an allowance.
I think most people see allowance as meaning the relationship is transactional. So, as Mac-san said, allowance is like a condom for the heart.
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