I’m a single woman in my early 40s who works for a company.
I work at a research institute, so there are plenty of men around me. However, since I have a graduate degree, I tend to have a strong sense of pride, and the atmosphere at work is rather formal. There isn’t anyone there I’d want to date.
I understand that my age may make things difficult, but I’m hoping to meet a kind-hearted, emotionally calm man with a reliable background. If we get along well and our personalities are compatible, I’m not particular about his appearance or age.
Ideally, I’d like to have a long-term relationship with one man.
Would I still receive offers in my 40s?
(If not, I suppose I’ll just have to give up...)
Also, I often work overtime, so would an arrangement where we meet about twice a month be acceptable?
Thank you very much.
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A female member’s offer rate may decrease as she gets older.
But there are relatively few female members in their 40s and 50s. In other words, there’s plenty of room to stand out.
From a man’s perspective, an attractive woman in this age range is more likely to be memorable. And from a woman’s perspective, there’s less competition.
That’s a real strength.
There will always be a certain number of male members who don’t place much importance on a woman’s age. So if you can establish a strong position here, you have a good chance of receiving offers.
It’s Me.
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I’ve been seeing multiple men at the same time for the past two to two and a half years, and there’s a good chance some of them think they’re the only one. Some I see once a month, while others I see every week. I’m in my late 40s.
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Women with a background like yours seem to be in the minority here. You may well receive offers, but finding a gentle, considerate man you can stay with for the long term, as you wish, may not be easy.
If you have even the slightest desire to get married, why not try a paid matchmaking agency? More women with backgrounds like yours register there than people might expect, and my impression is that there are quite a few men who would meet your standards as well. In my own circle, three men and two women have gone on to get married through one. (The women were a company owner and a female doctor, and both were in their 40s.)
I think you’re more likely to find men who match what you’re looking for there. However, if you have absolutely no desire to marry, things can get complicated—and you may not even be eligible to join in the first place.
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Unless you look like Kyoko Fukada, I feel that finding one person to stay with you long-term would be pretty difficult—not impossible, but unlikely.
Unless you’re willing to care for an elderly male member, you should consider yourself lucky if you find someone willing to be intimate with you once or twice.
Since you no longer have youth—the biggest advantage—you need to focus less on what you want and more on how you’re perceived and what you can offer.
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①, I guess.
I haven’t pulled this one out in a while（笑）
Saying that graduating from grad school means someone has a big ego is about as ridiculous as saying that having large breasts makes someone stupid.
I assume this is bait, but do you really enjoy catching tiny trash fish?
Since it’s been a while, I’ll copy and paste the “severity scale” that Mac wrote:
“Severity” Scale
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① Trying to provoke the respondents to get their attention, ② Not malicious, but bored and looking to chat, ③ Too lazy to do their own research or contact the branch, so they want a quick answer, ④ An innocent question, ⑤ Genuinely troubled and seriously looking for help
(Severity increases from ① to ⑤.)
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A dating club is where you can easily find someone who fits that ideal.
I also think a club can help you meet perfectly ordinary men like the ones you have around you now, simply because the opportunity to meet them is different.
In your case, there’s a very good chance of that happening.
If you’re looking to meet someone about twice a month, the chances may be even higher.
That said, this may only apply to women who have so many men approaching them outside the club that it becomes a problem.
Still, relationships between men and women are something only the people involved can truly understand, so I think it could be worth trying while you’re still young.
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