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Sep 15, 2023 01:44
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Manager Okada has that “older gentleman” or “middle-aged man” vibe, but Hiroshima Carp manager Arai and Yokohama BayStars manager Miura are younger than him, though they’re still in their late 40s. To women in their 20s, would they still be considered “middle-aged men”?
Personally, I don’t mind dating an older man as long as he’s sincere and has a good personality.
Is whether someone is a “middle-aged man” simply determined by age? For example, Hiromi Go and Toshinobu Kubota are both in their 60s, but they don’t really give off a “middle-aged man” vibe. What do you think?
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いっつ・みぃ
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Age: 50s
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Three negative stereotypes about older men:
1. A beer belly
2. Bad breath and body odor
3. Being stubborn
If you make an effort to stay in shape, don’t neglect grooming and skincare, and remain open-minded about new trends, technology, and changing values, I think older men still have a chance.
Hiromi Go is amazing. I’ve seen him up close, and his physique hasn’t changed at all over the years. He’s kind and unbelievably cool.
He’s on a whole different level before you can even call him an “older guy.”
It’s me.
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Men in their late 40s are middle-aged guys.
And we’re middle-aged women too, haha.
But still… with well-groomed bodies, the manners and poise that come with age, and all the tough situations we’ve been through, I don’t think we’re inferior to anyone as people.
高坂 楓(スタッフ)
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Hello!
I’m Kosaka, a staff member, and I’d like to answer as well!
Personally, I think it depends on your father’s age. If he’s around your father’s age or younger, he’ll probably feel relatively young to you, so I don’t think you’d consider him an “older man.”
That’s just my personal opinion, though (*^^*)
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I’m still in my 60s, but once you round my age up, I’m in my 70s—so I’m basically a full-fledged old man.
The woman I’m seeing is in her 20s, so I’m sure she sees me as a complete old man, but even after five years, she still hasn’t left me(笑). Maybe it also helps that we’ve both gotten older together and she’s simply used to me now…
Of course, it probably depends on the woman, but if, based on her first impression, she thinks, “Maybe I’d be willing to date him” or “This might be okay,” I believe the relationship can continue even with a significant age gap.
We’re not boyfriend and girlfriend, but if she feels she can receive support from me with peace of mind, then regardless of my looks, I get the sense that she recognizes me as a good person to date in this kind of arrangement.
This probably doesn’t apply only to you, but I’d be grateful if women could put up with us old men to some extent.
I’m apparently not the only one—there seem to be quite a few male members at dating clubs who have finished the first and second stages of life and are asking women to spend time with them while giving themselves a financial advantage(笑).
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
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会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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Some women are willing to become someone’s girlfriend even with an age gap of around 30 years.
Given your age, someone like Hiromi Go—who’s not yet 70—might still fall within your acceptable range.
That range varies from person to person. Some young women may feel that even a man five or ten years older—or someone in his late twenties—is already an older guy.
Personally, I consider people over 25 to be “older men and women.”
I also believe that life truly becomes enjoyable after both men and women grow older, when youth is no longer their only asset.