He’s less a papa and more just a creepy old man. How can I make it more bearable?

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あや · Answer

Women in their early 20s today have really absorbed lookism, so basically, they hate older guys〜. Far too many people don’t understand this.

You’re perfectly normal. It’s only natural not to like older men, so you should accept it and stick to dating younger people.

伊達◎ゆめ · Answer

Haha, that’s the spirit! Keep it up!

You should stay in a relationship with that creepy-ass old guy for two or three years. Before long, he’ll start looking handsome instead of creepy.

I’m serious—go ahead and ask that creepy-ass old guy to date you. I’ll be waiting to hear from you again in three years.

Fuu · Answer

Just don’t meet anyone around the age that you consider “old.”

Those of us who are papas date women who are willing to accept us even if we’re older men, so please don’t worry.

We have no desire to give an allowance to someone who sees us that way, so we’ll simply walk away ourselves.

茉莉花 · Answer

I don’t think you’ll be able to blend in, so I recommend dating someone younger.

Marika

前澤 · Answer

Thank you for your question.  
Maezawa here.

I think the simple answer is not to meet them. You’re not a child, so you’re old enough to choose who you meet.

Besides, everyone gets older. If you’re lucky, you’ll soon be the same age yourself.

I hope you’ll live in a way that won’t make you ashamed of things you’ve said in the past.

Being anonymous doesn’t mean you can write whatever you want.

I always thought Japan had a wonderful saying:  
“The sun is watching.”

Have people who say things like that disappeared...?

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