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I’ve been seeing a female college student for about a year, though we’ve gone through periods of meeting and not meeting. I’d really like to know how I should interpret her shift from leaving my messages unread to reading them but not replying. **What happened:** - We had an argument over email about a month ago. - Thinking it might be over, I emailed her because I still had feelings for her and wanted us to say a proper goodbye. - Two days later, she replied, saying she wasn’t angry at all. - I then emailed her, saying, “So I misunderstood and ended up writing a goodbye email.” Since then, she hasn’t even opened any of my messages. - She hasn’t responded when I asked if we could meet, either. During those two days when my messages remained unread, I ended up sending about five of them.

Answer 1

Getting into an argument with a woman over text is simply unacceptable. You need to make sure that never happens again. You should be able to understand that “I’m not mad” usually means she’s actually very angry—she doesn’t want to talk, see you, or have anything to do with you. And when she goes out of her way to add “not at all,” it means she’s absolutely furious and still holding a grudge.

Answer 2

Given the situation, I don’t think he’s angry so much as simply not interested. If you’re someone he wants to continue seeing, I’d expect him to make some kind of effort to repair the relationship. Try not contacting him for a while and see what happens. If he still doesn’t reach out, I think it’s best to move on.

Answer 3

After reading Mac’s answer… Well, I also think it’s best to wait and see. I get the feeling they’re not expecting much. If it were me, I wouldn’t contact them again and would just give up.

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