In papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), just like in a regular relationship, do people ever go through negative changes—like starting out genuinely interested in their favorite girl but eventually losing interest and only wanting intimacy?
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If I were a man, I feel like I’d just move on to someone else as soon as I got bored…
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Personally, in my case, I’m looking for an adult relationship (intimate) from the start, so if there’s a problem that gets in the way of that, I end things.
Sometimes the woman ends things with me, too...
There are various reasons for a breakup: I might simply get bored, see an unpleasant side of her, or she may start taking the arrangement for granted and become careless.
Some arrangements do last for five years or more, though.
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Haha, no—I don’t think there’s been any negative change like that.
I don’t really get tired of it. Though I suppose part of that is because I didn’t have particularly high expectations to begin with（笑）.
For me, the most important things are that she genuinely engages with me and that we both feel safe and comfortable. When you’re in that kind of relationship, it feels like there’s no end to it.
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Thank you for the question. I’ll answer as well, Maezawa.
Unlike ordinary romantic relationships, an allowance is involved. So I don’t think someone would continue seeing a person after their feelings had faded. They’d probably look for another woman.
Besides, that sort of “just for the physical relationship” mindset may have been common in the Showa era, but does it really still exist today?
It’s not a phrase you hear much anymore, but you sound like someone in their 40s or 50s.
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I only keep women I won’t get bored with and whose appeal won’t fade among my favorites, so things can continue for years—both with women from the club and those I met outside it. I think it’s either that neither of us ever gets tired of the other, or that we develop feelings.
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With a relationship through Universe Club, I think things would happen in the reverse order, starting with physical intimacy. So if I got bored or my feelings cooled, I’d probably stop seeing him.
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