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I’m thinking about doing “puchi” as part of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but when it’s in a car or an internet café, is it normal to go straight to unprotected oral without washing first?

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I used to work at a delivery service, so I’m a little uncomfortable with it. Do people usually wipe beforehand with alcohol-free wet wipes or something? I’d appreciate your answers.
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
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Were you meeting people through an app or something? A lot of men who use dating clubs have never done the “petite” option. By the way, does the idea of wiping yourself with wet tissues come from pin-salon establishments? They probably do that because they’re venue-based businesses and don’t have much choice. Whether it’s the petite option or anything else, hotels have showers, so I don’t think hygiene is an issue.
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It’s best to avoid “petit” arrangements in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Take your time, talk about various things, and get to know each other first. I think it’s more enjoyable to build a deep, solid relationship from there.
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“Puchi” is short for “puchi enjo kōsai” (a small-scale compensated dating arrangement), or at least that’s what it used to mean. So rather than looking for someone through a dating club, I think you’re better off searching in places where compensated dating takes place. Try dating cafés or dating apps/sites. Based on my own experience with dating sites, puchi typically meant wiping down with non-alcoholic wet wipes, though I remember some women offering immediate encounters.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Since the point of a dating club is to get to know each other and then become intimate, there may not be much demand for hand-only or oral-only arrangements. You might have better luck with a papa-katsu app or around Okubo Park.
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Thank you for your question. Maezawa here. “What does ‘puchi’ mean?” I’ll pretend to be innocent and ask that myself… I think it’s best to understand that the club cannot be used for the purpose of prostitution. The club’s role is strictly limited to arranging meals. Any relationship that develops afterward is for the two of you to discuss and decide between yourselves. That said, considering your purpose, I think you’d be better off going to a delivery health service.
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