For those of you who have joined other dating clubs before, could you share your experience? What’s the biggest, most decisive difference between other dating clubs and Universe?

I think Universe takes the best profile photos. And the fact that they don’t edit them makes it even better, right? Marika

I didn’t notice any major differences, but since Univa has more members, I felt the range of allowances was wider too.

My situation is a little unusual, but the point is that this question box allows me to make “reverse offers.” With the girl from this post: https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/15694 we went to a mixed-gender hot spring on our first date, toured a love hotel and visually confirmed her hymen on the second, and next week we’re going to visit a swingers’ club. If she doesn’t get scared when we go, she may really be able to have her first experience there. Regarding her statement: > “I don’t have the mindset of ‘I’m a virgin, so I want my first time to be with someone I like!’” After meeting her and talking things through at length, I learned that she had never actually felt romantic attraction toward men in the first place. When she was a student, someone confessed their feelings to her, so she dated him and even kissed and hugged him, but she felt absolutely nothing and felt bad for him, so she declined to continue the relationship. She had never masturbated either, and since she had never felt romantic attraction toward women, she had apparently been wondering whether she might be aromantic and asexual in LGBTQ terms. However, when we actually got naked and explored her nipples and clitoris, she did show some response, inexperienced as she was. So I figured she may simply be immature and undeveloped, and that it might be a good idea to first help her move beyond asexuality and develop her sexual desire, and then perhaps move beyond aromanticism and develop romantic feelings as an extension of that. People on this question box—especially female respondents—often say, “Your first time should be with someone you like.” But that assumes romantic feelings toward a “someone you like” already exist, doesn’t it? If that part hasn’t developed, then that advice doesn’t really answer the question, haha. Many women probably naturally develop romantic feelings for attractive guys, mature emotionally, and then develop sexual desire afterward. But apparently there are women who don’t work that way. In this questioner’s case, she apparently competed in an individual sport all the way to the national high school championships and was even selected as an elite development athlete. (She kept it secret during the interview, so it isn’t listed on her profile.) Maybe that kind of athletic background has something to do with it. It sounds strange, but our relationship is starting to click because she sees it like a sports club: I’m her “coach” in sexuality, while the other girls are her teammates. It looks like I’m going to have a pretty interesting experience. I’ll sum up my answer in my own way: Universe Club provides all kinds of tools as part of its system, but how you customize and tune them to suit yourself is up to the user. If I had to compare it to a car, that ease of modification is what appeals to me. P.S. No matter how expensive or high-performance a sports car you buy and drive around, it’s still just a prefabricated car made by someone else, right? Talk about a predetermined outcome. A car only becomes a real car when you use it yourself and learn to handle it—and the same goes for women. The club’s system works the same way.

I’m still registered with other dating clubs as well, and I think the biggest difference is the number of members. Having branches outside the major cities is also a big factor, and seems to be one reason they have so many members. Some other dating clubs claim to have branches in ○○, but there’s actually no office there. Clubs that lie about things like this clearly underestimate their members, and the flaws in their work tend to show. Perhaps because the allowance amounts are reported to the clubs, I feel that other dating clubs have more women with a stronger prostitution-oriented mindset. One more thing I remembered: other dating clubs often leave the profiles of female members who registered a long time ago online as they are, so even when you make an offer, the club is sometimes unable to contact the woman. That’s why the membership numbers announced by dating clubs often don’t represent the number of active members, and I think the actual gap in membership numbers is even larger.