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Jul 5, 2023 07:30
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The other day, I went overseas with a woman I’m seeing in first class, but she started asking me for luxury-brand items at the local shopping mall and airport, and I completely lost my temper.
Ideally, I’d fly first or business class while she flies economy, but I guess that’s not really practical, is it?
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Meg
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Age: 50s
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They’re being so condescending, it’s hilarious.
I’d never want to go on a trip with a papa like that… *eye roll*
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Age: 50s
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If he’s flying first class or business while putting his companion in economy, all I can think is that he’s a stingy man.
In your case, going on the trip would probably just end with you having a falling-out, so I think you’d be better off canceling the trip altogether.
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> Ideally, I’d fly first or business class while the woman flies economy, but I guess it doesn’t work that way, right?
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That’s not necessarily true.
Please don’t lose your temper so easily.
Let’s create a new style of papa-katsu together(笑)
Economy class on the plane, and a kei truck for the car!
Pretty good, right?(笑)
Oh!
Of course, the papa flies economy too, and driving a kei truck is a given.
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Age: 50s
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I never even thought of booking separate seats.
First class is insanely expensive, isn’t it? I would’ve added it if it had been included as a tour option, but I’ve never flown first class.
I’m not very experienced with overseas travel...
In my case, I just give her cash for souvenirs. I tell her to buy whatever she likes within that amount, and that solves it.
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Age: 60s
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I can certainly understand how you feel.
You may be thinking, “I splurged on first class, so surely she could spare me the luxury-brand items,” but I think you’ve got it backwards. My guess is that flying her first class is what prompted her to ask for luxury goods. In other words, perhaps the first-class fare became her benchmark and planted the idea that “A Dior bag is cheap compared with first class.”
In my case, when I travel overseas, we generally meet and part ways at the destination. I pay for her airfare separately, but economy class is the standard. We also meet at the hotel rather than the airport. This helps me avoid the risk—if you can call it that—of being made to buy luxury goods at the airport. Sorry for being so cheap.
Other
Most women in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) seem to expect their papa (a male supporter) to provide them with experiences, luxurious places, and a lifestyle they couldn’t have on their own.
So if you separate the seating accordingly, it’s game over. In the first place, you probably shouldn’t date someone who makes you want to divide the seats that way.
Regardless of their age, women can start judging their own worth by what kind of hotel their papa booked or where he took them—and suddenly mistake themselves for high-achieving, high-status women.
I feel that you may have misunderstood what papa-katsu women are really like to begin with.
Akari
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Isn’t it fine to do whatever you want?
Whether things work out with the other person is another matter, but go ahead and do as you please.