For a first meeting with an overseas man, I was asked to follow a dress code since it’ll be at a luxury hotel.

> I was given a dress code, though. What exactly were you told to wear? If it was something like smart casual, I imagine an outfit similar to what you wore to your interview—perhaps a dress? It probably depends on the specific dress code. Usually, I don’t think they would turn you away for something that minor. If this was arranged through a club, you could ask the staff about it. They may be able to check with the man for you. Also, if you know the name of the hotel, you may be able to look up the dress code online.

Were you asked to wear a dress? I think something classy and modest would be fine. A hostess-club dress doesn’t really count as a dress, in my opinion.