If they’re not willing to accommodate me, I don’t think I can accommodate them either.
If you’re concerned about the risks, I think it would be better to end the relationship altogether.
If he truly cared about her, he would normally cover the full cost of an abortion if she became pregnant because of him.
I seriously doubt that a man who only cares about his own pleasure and doesn’t think about the woman he’s with would pay for an abortion.
Also, even if he does care about her, from a man’s perspective, whether he was actually the cause is important.
This may sound harsh, but if a woman gives in to a man’s strong demands for unprotected sex with ejaculation inside, it’s only natural to assume she’s doing the same with other men.
In your case, there’s a good chance the man won’t pay the cost, so I think you should consider that as well when deciding whether to continue having unprotected sex with ejaculation inside.
I’m terribly sorry, but is this a question from someone whose brain has completely melted away?
Before worrying about pregnancy, you need to insist—with everything you’ve got—that he wear a condom. Of course, condoms aren’t 100% effective either, but judging from your wording, I can only assume that your papa (a male supporter) has completely melted away what little brain he had left. In other words, I suspect you’ll run into a different kind of trouble before pregnancy ever becomes an issue. He seems to be prioritizing his own pleasure without giving you even a second’s thought.
You still have at least some brain left, even if it’s melting away, so please think carefully about what you need to do while holding on to whatever remains.
I’m a man myself, so perhaps it’s not my place to say this, but my impression is that quite a few Universe girls seem to underestimate the risk of pregnancy.
I’m not a lawyer, so I’m not familiar with the details of cases resolved through the courts. However, according to a lawyer friend of mine, when consensual sex results in pregnancy and an abortion is required, the basic arrangement is for the costs to be split between both parties. (That said, if you’ve received an allowance, he may argue that the abortion costs were already included.) In that sense, the man may bear some responsibility—at least legally. However, as far as I understand it, the law does not adequately take into account the emotional and physical risks a woman faces when becoming pregnant and having an abortion. (I may be mistaken.) What’s more, if your papa is married, his wife could even sue you for adultery.
I’m in no position to speak as if I know everything, but you’re presumably a young woman with your whole future ahead of you, so please don’t take pregnancy lightly.
Always insist that he wear a condom. If he refuses, firmly refuse to have sex.
