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Jun 7, 2023 13:29
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Both my previous papa and my current one left my LINE messages on read without replying. I want to know why they ended things, but I probably shouldn’t ask, right? It doesn’t look like either of them has blocked me.
I’ve already been cut off by two papas this year, so I’m feeling really depressed ( ; ; )
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Even if you ask, I still can’t tell you the truth.
If I’m not going to end things, I might try to explain, but even then, I probably won’t be able to say it, so I don’t think I could really give you an answer.
And even if they do answer, I feel like it probably isn’t the real reason...
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As a staff member at Universe Club, I’d like to answer as well.
There’s no rule saying you can’t ask, so I think it’s perfectly fine to give it a try!
There are many things that matter when it comes to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but I believe responding promptly is important across the board.
Other than that, try reviewing whether there were any other issues. You now have examples from both your previous and most recent experiences, so if you can identify something they had in common, simply improving that aspect may make a difference.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
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I think it’s best to ask him.
That said, I get the impression that many people won’t give you a clear answer. Even so, I think it’s worth asking.
There may also be some clues in the conversation you had the last time you met, so it might help to think back on what you talked about.
For example, things might end up going like this:
“Do you want to go out for dinner?”
“How much will you give me if we go?”
Even if it’s not that blatant, there are probably quite a few things that can make a man lose interest when he hears them.
From a woman’s perspective, it may seem like something very minor, but to him it could be enough to decide there won’t be a next time.
It would be helpful if you could remember what it was, but the person saying it usually doesn’t think there’s anything wrong with it, which is why they say it in the first place. So it may be difficult to figure out.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I think it’s worth asking.
The answers you’re most likely to get are:
- Being a dead fish
- Expensive despite being one-patterned
- Not fun to talk to
- Body odor
- Taking more than 24 hours to reply on LINE
Age: Private
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I think you should ask.
Personally, I don’t usually explain why I’m ending things, but I’ll answer if I’m asked.