Good evening. I’d like some advice on choosing restaurants when offering a woman from a branch different from the one I’m registered with.
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Since I’m unfamiliar with the area, I usually use the restaurant at the hotel where I’m staying for our setting date. I keep notes on restaurants I’d like to visit or invite her to for a first date or for dates after the second.
However, some of those restaurants are too far from my hotel to be suitable for a first-date itinerary. I could simply save them for later dates and not use them for the initial meeting, but…
I’ve been using the hotel restaurant so often that the staff recognize me. I feel a little embarrassed and self-conscious, and would like to cut back on using the restaurants inside the hotel, which is why I’m asking.
If anyone has had similar thoughts or experiences, I’d really appreciate your opinions. Thank you.
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When it comes to hotels, they’re used to that sort of thing, so I’m sure they’d handle it well.
If it were me, I wouldn’t be shy. I’d say, “Let’s use this table—or that quiet private room in the back. We’re counting on you again today,” and build a good rapport with the staff so they’ll cooperate.
On the way out, I’d say, “Thank you as always. You’ve been a big help. We’ll be back,” to show my appreciation.
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I’d suggest looking for a place near the hotel that looks good, after reading the reviews carefully. You could also factor in the taxi ride when choosing. It can be fun to find a restaurant you’ve never been to before, too.
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The important thing is whether you’re genuinely interested in finding those kinds of places yourself.
Can you share the experience—whether it’s the restaurant, the activity, or simply spending time together?
Can you share feelings like “this is delicious” or “this isn’t really my thing”?
If you’re not interested, the other person may end up feeling bored, so I think it’s important to take an interest in finding places she wants to go and things she’ll enjoy.
If it’s somewhere you don’t usually go, try to find the process of researching it enjoyable too.
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For information on places that work well for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), the specific branch probably has the most up-to-date and accurate information.
They’ve accumulated feedback and may also know the preferences of their female members.
If you build a good relationship with the person who handled your membership interview and the staff you’re in contact with, they’ll be more likely to give you advice when you need it. Do as much research as possible beforehand, then ask concise questions—it should make your decision easier.
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A lot of hotel restaurants aren’t actually that good, are they?
But apparently in Nagoya, dates at the Marriott’s restaurants are pretty common.
Personally, I want to enjoy good food too, and I like discovering new places, so I search sites like Ikkyu Restaurant to find somewhere that looks promising.
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