I’m exclusive with one person, and we genuinely date as a couple.
I give her the same allowance whether we just have dinner or have an adult relationship. I don’t see it as payment for dinner or for an intimate relationship at all, so it feels completely natural to me.
Before narrowing it down to just her, I was seeing several people at the same time, and for dinner-only dates, I kept it at 1.
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In my case, I only have one partner, we meet just twice a month, and I give her the same amount of support every month, so it makes no difference whether we have an adult relationship (intimate) or not.
That hasn’t changed since the beginning of our arrangement.
What has changed is her attitude toward the relationship. I’m an old man and married, so it’s not a serious romantic relationship. She treats me the way a woman in a contractual arrangement would treat what people commonly call a papa (a male supporter).
I went from being a shitty old geezer to “Date-san,” and now I’m the “Date version.”
She went from an unsophisticated girl to a young lady, and now she’s become the kind of lovely young woman who could meet anyone without feeling embarrassed.
For someone like me, I think a dating club is a good system that allows both the women and me to have mutually beneficial relationships.
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The women I see are a mix of club members and others, so it varies—some have a difference in allowance and some don’t.
I give both groups money for dinner, but for the ones with a difference, it’s around 10,000–30,000 yen, while for those without one, it’s 70,000 yen or more.
The absolute amount of the allowance is fairly high, but since we generally spend a long time together, I’m probably not very cost-effective for them.
Sometimes we wrap things up early depending on the circumstances, but even then, I don’t change the amount.
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When we meet for a dinner-only date, there’s no allowance. But if we don’t become intimate because she suddenly gets her period or something, I still give her the allowance even though we didn’t have sex.
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