Are there any tips for telling whether a woman expects a high or low allowance?
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I’ve met around 40 women through the club. I’m currently seeing six of them regularly, with allowances ranging from ¥40,000 to ¥100,000.
The woman I give ¥100,000 to started at ¥60,000. She’s been so wonderful to me that I now give her ¥100,000. I’m happy to give that amount when I feel she deserves it, but if someone says ¥100,000 from the start, it somehow turns me off.
With that in mind, I’d rather not make offers to women who initially ask for ¥100,000. If anyone has tips for telling them apart, I’d appreciate your advice.
Of course, nothing is 100% certain, and there may be cases where someone is asking me for ¥100,000 specifically because it’s me. Maybe she’d accept ¥50,000 from someone better, but wants ¥100,000 from me.
So purely subjective, based on your own instincts and experience, are there any tips you can share?
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I’m not sure, since my values differ from yours.
I think the offer fee through a club is very reasonable. You’ll understand once you try doing it outside the club.
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You might want to focus on women who don’t seem very popular or who probably receive few offers.
I’m not sure whether they’ll tell you, but you could try asking the club to introduce you to women who don’t get many offers.
You might even become the ideal supporter for someone who rarely receives offers.
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If they’re willing to date you for ¥100,000, isn’t that a good thing?
I was turned down for a relationship right from the start, haha.
As for how to tell, the amount they want probably varies depending on who they meet face-to-face, but perhaps you could look at their desired or target monthly allowance...
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A good match for me also needs to be a good match for the other person.
Why try to make encounters between men and women more efficient? I mean, when it comes to meeting people in general…
I think it’s fair to say that no experience is ever wasted.
After living for many years, I think most people develop a clear sense of which appearances they’re instinctively drawn to—or put off by—in both men and women. Personally, I place a lot of importance on that feeling.
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> When someone says ¥100,000 right from the start, it kind of kills the mood for me.
That’s just a matter of personal preference, so I think you can simply choose not to meet them again after the first time.
Honestly, this question comes across as if you just want to screen people in advance because you don’t want to waste the offer fee.
Do you really want to be that stingy?
The whole point of meeting various women is to build experience, and I think it also helps you appreciate how special and rewarding it is when you meet a great woman.
If you really don’t want anyone asking for ¥100,000, couldn’t you just write in your request:
“Please decline anyone who asks for an allowance of ¥100,000.”
Although, now that I think about it, maybe you can’t say that if the allowance is already listed...
What if they ask for a six-figure amount? Would that still be too strict?
I wonder.
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② I don’t think looking for an easy fix is the right approach.
The trick is to use a dating club that lists—or tells you—the allowance each woman wants. That way, you can identify them with almost 100% accuracy.
Have a nice day. Goodbye.
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