I’ve been seeing this papa for over a year. He cares about me deeply, he’s sincere, and we have a good relationship, but…
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He has an insatiable sex drive and takes an extremely long time to finish, which is becoming a real problem. We usually have sex continuously for two to three hours without a break.
I have plenty of energy and stamina, and I’m very responsive and easily aroused, so he never wants to stop. Apparently, he feels we’re incredibly compatible, and there’s no doubt that he really cares about me—but the exhaustion afterward is unbearable. It hurts so much to walk that I have to be driven home or take a taxi every time. I feel like I could stay in bed for two or three days, but I force myself to go to work despite how awful I feel.
He always gives me my allowance properly—unlike some papas who forget or try to shortchange you—and he even prepares a small gift for special occasions. We also go out for a meal and spend time together at a luxury hotel every time, so I find it really difficult to bring up the issue of how long he takes.
I’ve tried vaguely telling him that I’m sore down there, but he seems to take it as proof that he has incredible stamina…
I’m satisfied with him, and the sex itself is good, but the penetration is simply too long and it’s becoming painful. I’m good at oral sex and am confident I could make him finish that way, but even I can’t keep up with him.
Since our dates involve dinner and hours of sex, I’m tied up for a very long time, so from a cost-benefit standpoint, it’s honestly not great.
I can’t figure out what to do about this relationship. The day before each date, I already start feeling depressed at the thought of having that extremely long sex again.
I’d really appreciate some advice. Sorry for the long post.
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If you don’t like that papa because he takes too long to finish, then no matter how great he is in other ways, you’ll have to end things.
Asking him to become quick to finish or wrap things up in a short time just isn’t realistic.
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I think you should simply end things.
Even if you don’t want to break up because the allowance is good, considering how much pain you’re going through, it sounds like you feel the allowance isn’t worth it.
Ending things and looking for someone new should solve the problem.
There are other good men out there, too.
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This may be a simple question, but can a man who doesn’t care about your well-being really be someone who cares deeply about you, is sincere, and gives you a good relationship???
Giving you an allowance is a given, and small gifts, high-end restaurants, and hotels are ultimately all about the financial side of things, aren’t they? Of course, they’re still better than men who don’t even meet your financial needs...
Emotionally, though, it doesn’t feel like he truly cares about you.
I think you should break up with him. Find a man who will care more about your feelings.
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I don’t think someone who doesn’t care about a woman’s physical well-being can truly be sincere or genuinely care about her.
Normally, it’s about 30 minutes. Two hours is out of the question.
You have to say something like this:
“This is too long, and I’m still feeling the effects two or three days later. I like you and would really like to continue seeing you for a long time.
I don’t want the physical strain to make me dislike you, so I’m willing to accept a lower allowance if necessary. Could you shorten the time to no more than one hour?”
Whether you mention lowering the allowance depends on your budget. Be clear about the time limit from the start—the first meeting is crucial.
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Even thinking it over, I can’t come up with many ways to make things shorter. The only thing that comes to mind is cosmetic surgery to make your private area much tighter, which isn’t very realistic. It might be best to say goodbye and look for a papa (a male supporter) who finishes quickly.
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Why does it take you so long?? Even when I don’t want it to…
That just means he doesn’t care about pleasing you at all… Just break up with him already.
In this world, there are people who want to please their partner, and people who only want to please themselves.
Even I’m pretty confident in my stamina—I’ve run a full marathon in the two-hour range—but there’s no one on this planet who can sprint at full speed for even a minute straight.
You should find a new papa (a male supporter) and date someone whose compatibility with you is good enough that you can honestly say, “This is amazing,” right from the first meeting—even if you have to flatter him a little.
When you make any kind of request to a man, he takes it as a rejection of everything he’s done up to that point, so it becomes difficult for him to continue.
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If the compatibility is truly amazing, I think a man can finish within a few minutes of penetration—or whenever the woman wants.
The woman who could keep going for two or three hours was probably the loosest partner I’ve ever had…
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Looks like Mr. Attack-on-the-Giant-Dick has made an appearance.
“Severity” scale
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① Provoking the respondent just to get attention, ② Not malicious, but bored and looking to chat, ③ Too lazy to look it up or contact the site directly, so wants a quick answer, ④ Just a simple question, ⑤ Seriously struggling with a genuine problem
(Severity increases from ① to ⑤.)
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If I had to place this somewhere, I’d say it’s probably ⑤?
As for my answer:
“Choose the option you won’t regret.” — Levi
“It can’t be helped, can it? The world is cruel.” — Mikasa Ackerman
“If there was another way, then tell me!!” — Eren Yeager
“Making the right choice… is actually pretty difficult.” — Petra Ral
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So, sex with your papa is difficult, and since your dates last a long time, you feel it isn’t worth the allowance, right?
Why not tell your papa that the sex is too long and difficult for you, and that the arrangement isn’t worth it?
Lots of couples break up because of sexual incompatibility.
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