I don’t mean to make fun of anyone, but those of you with years of experience may consider this a question that falls under either ① or ②.

Simply put— Of course, that’s not the only reason, and there are also women who genuinely enjoy intimacy. But if you imagine that many women think, “I’m lucky if I can get my allowance in a short amount of time,” then I don’t think you need to fix it. Women probably prefer premature ejaculation to delayed ejaculation, so that’s good news for you.

Finishing quickly is easier on the body and more appreciated than going three rounds. If the genders were reversed, I think you’d be happy about it too. As you get older, you naturally start taking longer to finish.

It’s understandable that things might swing in that direction for the sake of balance. I struggled with premature ejaculation when I was younger too. I tried all sorts of methods. I’ll list as many as I can remember: 1. If watching too much porn causes ED, while abstaining from porn causes premature ejaculation, find a middle ground and watch it in moderation—for example, make the 10th of every month Porn Day. 2. During masturbation, repeatedly hold back just as you’re about to finish and learn to recognize the sensation. 3. Reduce stimulation by wearing a thicker condom. If you can’t find one, double up on standard ones. 4. Take care of yourself in the bathroom before sex. 5. During sex, focus on pleasing your partner without stimulating your own member. Specifically, don’t stroke—press it deep inside and move your body while keeping it in place. 6. Try not to look at your partner’s expressions or naked body too much, and don’t listen to her voice either. Focus all your attention on the sound of the air conditioner. 7. When you feel yourself getting close, close your eyes and picture Murakami’s sharp look as he steps up to bat. 8. When you feel yourself getting close, make a fist as if you’re gripping your thumb inside it. No idea why, but it works. 9. Even if you finish, keep moving your hips as long as you’re still standing—the “What do you mean? I haven’t finished yet” strategy. How’s that? I even thought through the batting order, from numbers one to nine. It’s wonderful that you have someone you’ve been seeing for a long time and can share your worries with. Take good care of her. Taro

I’d rate him as a ⑤, but the crucial detail is missing. About how many minutes after penetration does he usually ejaculate? The quickest case I’ve heard about from a PJ was a man who ejaculated while putting on a condom, before he could even penetrate. She met him several times, but they ultimately ended things without ever managing penetration. I’ve witnessed a severely premature-ejaculating man at a swingers’ bar. I don’t think he even made it to “three-and-a-half strokes.” He ejaculated after about two strokes. The woman looked shocked and said, “Seriously, you’re already done?” while the man gave an embarrassed smile. That said, some women climax extremely easily too. There was one woman who, the moment penetration began, let out an “Oh!” arched backward, convulsed, and climaxed. With someone like that, he might be fine as long as he can hold out until penetration. I’m not a medical expert, but the ICI therapy Kaz taught me about—the one where you inject medication directly into your penis—keeps you hard even after ejaculation. You stay erect for about two hours until the medication wears off, even if an earthquake hits or a tsunami comes. If this is really troubling you, you might want to look into it.

I’m not sure how quickly you finish, but I’ve never met anyone who openly described himself as having premature ejaculation. Sorry for getting so explicit, but my most financially generous papa (a male supporter) lasts about seven minutes during penetration each time. I do think, “That’s pretty short,” but I feel his affection, so it’s not a problem at all. Sex with another papa was incredible—we spent a three-day, two-night trip doing it almost the entire time we weren’t eating. He may indeed be the exact opposite of someone with premature ejaculation. In the end, you can never know 100% what the other person is feeling, so keep exploring and striving to offer the best experience you can.

Haha（笑） Questions like this are nice because they’re harmless（笑） You’ll gradually get back to normal with time. If it happens too quickly, she might find it boring, but since it sounds like you’re still seeing the woman you first made an offer to, you can keep practicing while appreciating a partner who already knows you inside and out. I’ve been seeing the same woman for five years. She probably feels the same way about me, but we’re enjoying the changes in our relationship and things are going great for both of us（笑）

If you hadn’t made the same post twice and left out the last sentence, I would’ve guessed it was option ④. I’ve never had that problem myself, so I don’t have any personal advice on overcoming it. Apparently, though, there are medications for premature ejaculation. Why not give one a try?