Is it normal to remove your makeup and have sex bare-faced during an overnight stay?
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The other day, I went on an overnight date with a woman from this site. When I asked if she wanted to take a shower, she washed her hair, removed her makeup, and came back bare-faced. I had a feeling when I heard the hair dryer...
She looked beautiful without makeup too, so we had sex, but from next time on, I’d prefer her to keep her hair and makeup as they are when she showers.
However, I feel awkward telling her that I’d like her to shower without removing her makeup.
What should I do in this situation?
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Huh? That actually happens??
I always assumed you’d shower without taking off your makeup, then after it’s over, take a bath, remove your makeup, and wash your hair...
I’d think she’d do that without being told...
Strange...
But I guess it wouldn’t hurt to mention it…
She’s probably not someone you come across very often…
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It’s generally considered normal to remove your makeup before going to bed.
Maybe you’d understand if you tried wearing makeup every day yourself?
Of course, some people may choose not to take it off when someone else is around, but do you really like someone who keeps that much emotional distance from you?
Everyone has different preferences, of course.
Still, people can’t understand what you don’t tell them, so I think it would be best to bring it up gently without hurting her feelings.
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I wouldn’t take it off during a regular date, but if we were staying over, I might remove it before going to bed...
Showering → sex → showering → sleep is such a hassle, and washing my hair afterward feels like a chore, so I’d rather get the shower and makeup removal out of the way beforehand.
If they’re taking off their makeup on a date that doesn’t involve staying over, why not ask, “Isn’t that a hassle?” They might be doing it out of consideration or kindness toward you.
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You could say, “If she looks beautiful without makeup, isn’t that a good thing?” But if you really want her to keep her makeup on, why not simply choose not to stay overnight?
She may feel that you’re close enough for her to let you see her bare face, so it must be hurtful to be seen that way…
Going makeup-free takes quite a bit of courage, after all. Why not take it positively and think, “We must have a deep enough relationship for her to feel comfortable showing me her bare face”?
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There’s no special trick—if you don’t say what you’re thinking, the other person won’t know.
So if you really want her to wear makeup during sex, you’ll have to tell her directly.
If you’re worried she might dislike you for saying that, then the only option is for you to put up with it.
Personally, if someone looks great without makeup, I’d rather have sex with her bare-faced.
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In situations like that, quickly dim the lights. But if she has a dark complexion, you might lose track of where she is, so in that case, stay calm and draw her in until she’s close enough to touch before dimming the lights. Also, if you close one eye before turning off the lights, it can adjust to the darkness in advance, so you won’t be fumbling around afterward. Pirate wisdom.
I understand the urge to say, “Don’t take off your makeup, you idiot. Even if you look beautiful without it, I like you better with makeup on.” (To be honest, I don’t really understand it, lol.) But for a woman to casually show her bare face, she must have a great deal of confidence or trust. You actually thought she looked beautiful without makeup, didn’t you? If you still prefer her with makeup on, then you can safely call it a kind of fetish. As for your own issue, I think you should be upfront about it and work out a solution together.
But honestly, aren’t you getting too hung up on the details? Try going to a budget adult-entertainment establishment and letting them assign someone at random instead of choosing a specific person. Once you’ve been through a few tough situations, you’ll develop a strange kind of confidence and a feel for the right distance. You may find that you can’t handle a cold, Wakahanada-like woman, but you’re perfectly fine with an uncensored, Takashi Fujii-like woman who’s impossible to dislike. It might even be the entrance to the labyrinth of “What is it that makes a woman attractive in the first place?”
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What counts as “normal” depends on each person’s habits and outlook. So for that woman, taking off her makeup was probably just standard practice.
I think you should keep making offers until you meet a woman who doesn’t remove her makeup beforehand.
Good luck.
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