I apologize in advance if this is an inappropriate question.

It’s not medically true that having a lot of sex makes someone “loose”—apparently, it’s something you’re born with. In fact, many women become tighter because their vaginal muscles get strengthened through frequent sex. Since these women are quite sexually experienced, I think you’ll find that many of them are tight. Why not first check whether your own size is average? I suspect it’s probably on the smaller side. Since there’s not much else you can do, you might as well keep making offers until you find a woman who’s really tight. They do exist—women who are very tight. If you meet one, treat her well.

If you only look at things from your own perspective, you may feel that the other person is being too lenient. But in reality, that may simply mean you’re being narrow-minded. Rather than blaming everything on the other person, I think it would be better to try looking at things from different perspectives. And if you’re not satisfied with the dating club in the first place, why not go somewhere that meets your needs?

You say you’re average, but you can’t really know how the woman feels about it, can you? She may think you’re small, but pretend to enjoy it because she’s being paid. Whether someone can climax easily or not depends on all sorts of circumstances. I’m not someone who climaxes easily, but depending on the woman, sometimes being on top makes it easier, while other times, from behind works better. Why not try experimenting a little yourself first?

Sorry for the rude and vulgar answer. It really depends on what you place the most importance on. Is it tightness, the feeling of fit, how the woman responds and reaches orgasm, a sense of unity, visual excitement, kissing, oral sex, a slim waist, developing her over time, the type of play, being dominant, being submissive, how easily you climax, affection, or a sense of familiarity? The woman with the strongest, most satisfying tightness I’ve experienced privately was one of my longtime girlfriends—we even got engaged. But as I mentioned before, it took more than ten years to develop that compatibility. She welcomed me by saying we were perfectly compatible, but of course she would say that after finally getting there. From my perspective, though, if it took that many years, we were actually poorly matched. Still, as lovers, we could enjoy being together, so it wasn’t a problem. Even if the physical tightness is good, that doesn’t necessarily mean the sex is compatible or enjoyable. There were probably one or two women whose tightness was so intense that even getting one finger in was difficult, and penetration was so tight it hurt. If I tried thrusting, I felt like I’d be rubbed raw. Both of them were soapland workers. I suppose they possessed an exceptionally rare talent. It really made me realize that some people are simply born for the job. There haven’t been many women who were loose, but my ex-wife was quite loose. She made various efforts, asking things like, “How about this—does it feel different?” when she tightened herself, but I didn’t notice any particular change. We’re still not divorced, so the issue of whether we stay together or separate isn’t a deciding factor there. > Everyone I meet at the club is a really nice girl. We get along well in terms of personality and conversation, so it feels like a waste. Questioner, I think the key is to become “a man who can tell the difference”—in other words, a man who can make the woman feel the difference. It seems like a bit of a waste otherwise.

Some women naturally have a tighter fit than others. I’ve also heard that these days, it’s possible to create that surgically through cosmetic procedures. If a woman spends most of her time lounging around at home, her muscles may become weaker and she might be somewhat looser—I think. Women who work every day or stay active are probably tighter. Having given birth doesn’t necessarily mean someone will be loose. Try making offers to a wider variety of women.

It’s not really related to your question, but… What a funny question. It’s nice to see something so peaceful for a change（笑）

I think it was just a coincidence. I’ll answer on the premise that, just as penises come in all different sizes and shapes, so do vaginas. Among the women I’ve met through the club, the one who felt the tightest was wearing Van Cleef jewelry her previous papa had bought her. Personally, I feel that women with more sexual experience tend to squeeze more. So I thought, “I guess she really is worth the Van Cleef he bought her,” haha. I think the idea that feelings can make someone tighter is something women with their heads in the clouds say. The woman I’ve been seeing for a year now has recently started climaxing after about a minute when I perform cunnilingus on her. Her blowjobs are also better than they were when we first started seeing each other, and during penetration, I’ve learned how to move in the way she likes. I think that as you spend more time together, you get more accustomed to each other and things improve. P.S. Just as penises vary, so do vaginas, so this question is basically on the same level as asking, “Most of the men I dated through the club had small penises. Was that just a coincidence?”