What’s with the women whose ratings keep going up while they say things like, “You’re the only one,” or “I got an offer, so I’m meeting him, but I turned him down”? lol
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In a way, it’s kind of cute, but couldn’t they be a little more subtle? They’ve got men wrapped around their fingers.
That said, I’m doing my own thing too, so it doesn’t really bother me. But as a matter of etiquette, I feel like you’re supposed to keep it from the other person, don’t you?
A few women like this happened to me in a row, so I started wondering whether women generally don’t go that far out of their way to be considerate.
Personally, I think they should at least hide their profiles from the men they’re seeing—even if it’s just for show. You can do that, right?
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I have to admit, I’d rather not see the star ratings of women I’m seeing keep increasing, even if we’re only interested in something physical. So I’ve asked the staff to hide anyone who has made me an offer once.
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The questioner is seeing multiple people too, yet seems to be saying, “Just handle it smoothly so the women don’t find out.”
That attitude comes through loud and clear, so it feels like the women are going out of their way to lie.
In my case, since I’m seeing multiple women, I tell them from the start that I’ll support them seeing multiple people too. I tell them it’s fine to prioritize their boyfriend or other papas who rank higher.
It improves their impression of me, and they don’t have to lie. It seems easier for everyone.
Although, when I said that once, she told me she also worked at a delivery service, and I felt bad, but I ended things with her.
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Aren’t you getting the woman to say that?
That’s what I think whenever I hear things like what you’ve described. Maybe it’s because I approach these relationships with the understanding that we both have multiple partners, but women almost never say that to me.
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It’s not that I don’t try to be considerate, but men’s reactions vary so much that I honestly struggle with whether to hide my profile or not (lol).
Just like you, some men are the possessive type who think, “Her ratings are going up, so she must be seeing other guys too…” On the other hand, I’ve also heard of men getting offended after being hidden and asking, “Why did you hide me?”
So if it goes both ways, please be understanding and show at least the basic consideration of not talking about other partners while you’re together.
If you want to be exclusive, you’ve got to be an ikemen on the inside and out!
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When it comes to meeting through a dating club, “You’re the only one” feels a lot like an idol saying, “All my fans are my lovers.”
Just as it isn’t very healthy to think, “But you said your fans were your lovers and that you didn’t have a boyfriend in private!” when you find out an idol has a private partner, I don’t think it’s necessarily right to think, “But you said I was the only one!” when you discover that the person you’re seeing through a dating club is also seeing someone else.
In that sense, as the questioner pointed out, there is still the issue of whether it’s proper etiquette. But perhaps the unspoken understanding is that, even if you find out, you’re supposed to pretend you didn’t see anything.
That said, there are certainly women who genuinely choose to see only one person, and you can occasionally find someone like that.
Personally, my approach is to find someone with whom we can both focus exclusively on each other and pursue a serious relationship. So if I come across information suggesting that the woman I’m seeing is meeting other men, I’ll probably end things.
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