Tips Jan 26, 2023 16:20

My papa told me, “You look different without makeup, but not that different. You’re beautiful.”

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He said this recently when we went on a hot-spring trip together. After washing my hair and removing my makeup, we went into the hot spring together. I had shown him my bare face before, and we’ve had sex without makeup more often than with it. Apparently, he once dated a woman who looked like a completely different person without makeup, but he said it wasn’t really a problem because she kept her makeup on during sex. Still, hearing him say, “You look different without makeup, but you’re beautiful,” has been bothering me a little… If possible, I’d rather not show my bare face in front of my papa. However, he apparently dislikes getting lipstick on him when we kiss—he says lipstick contains a lot of harmful substances—and wants me to go without makeup. I’m already 27, so I’m not that young anymore and I’m not confident about my bare face. How should I handle this?
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Is there anything you can say when you see her without makeup besides “You’re beautiful”? I honestly can’t think of anything.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I don’t understand why she doesn’t want to show her bare face when she’s already shown it once. If he had never seen her without makeup before, I could understand why she wouldn’t want to show him—but…
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Did both your boyfriend and your papa (male supporter) say the same thing? Maybe they meant, “You look really different without makeup—but I don’t mean that in a bad way.” Isn’t that what they were saying? That’s a good thing, isn’t it?! Why take it so negatively? You should be confident that you look beautiful both with and without makeup! I’m concerned about lipstick too, so I don’t use it. How about using tinted lip balm at least? It would be a hassle if it got on your clothes. If someone complimented you on your bare face, be confident! Twenty-seven is still very young. I’ve already turned 37. I think what matters isn’t your age, but your appearance.
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Once you’ve gotten fairly close, you’re happy just that they’re willing to show themselves to you, even if they look a little less polished. I don’t mind.
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
By adding “I’m 27, so I’m not young anymore” at the end, you’ve turned all the female respondents against you, so don’t expect many sympathetic answers. Some people might even read between the lines and say, “The bit about going makeup-free was just an excuse—the questioner really wanted to say, ‘27 isn’t young anymore,’ right?” Why did you write something like that? It’s a perfect example of “youth equals stupidity,” so take it as a lesson and reflect on it.
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Let’s keep it quick. I’m Potassium, a female member. Get permanent makeup. Problem solved. Ta-da! That’s my personal opinion. *I turned it into a spot-the-mistakes puzzle! There are four!
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There’s a different nuance between a boyfriend and a papa (a male supporter), isn’t there? I was going to write an answer, but the way you phrased your question came across as insincere to me, so I decided not to. Please don’t ask strange questions.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
It’s painfully obvious you rewrote it as “papa.” Trolls are so annoying.
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