The two people I’m currently seeing through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) haven’t really let me give them oral sex.
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The first time with each of them, they asked me to, so I did. But from the second, third, and fourth times onward, they haven’t asked for it. Even when I try to, they’ll put on a condom, and if I say I want to, they’ll let me, but their attitude is more like, “Sure, if you want.”
This has never happened to me before. It’s only been the case over the past two or three years, and it’s making me worry that maybe I’m not very good at it.
They’re both in their late 40s to early 50s.
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I really enjoy blowjobs—they feel incredibly good—so with my partner or wife, we usually have one before penetration. (They also know my body extremely well.)
As I’ve gotten older, that area seems to have become more sensitive—or perhaps more easily irritated—so I’m wondering whether avoiding oral sex would actually make it easier for me to orgasm through vaginal intercourse.
With my favorite companion, whom I’ve been seeing the longest, things have never naturally progressed to her giving me a blowjob. I’d never felt that I needed one, so I’d never asked her to.
When someone is giving me a blowjob, I can’t really say anything even if it doesn’t feel that good, and I don’t feel comfortable saying much even if it hurts.
When a woman naturally goes down on me before penetration, it feels great. There are also women at the club who get so eager that they start giving me a blowjob almost immediately, and that can feel really good when the timing is right.
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Isn’t that a good thing? It makes things easy, and I imagine other female members would be happy with that.
Why not ask him, “How come you won’t let me?”
My guess is that he either doesn’t want to catch an STD, finds it unnecessary because he loses interest if you’re not good at it, or doesn’t like the smell of your breath.
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My papa is the same way. He seems to think oral sex is dirty, something you only see from watching too much porn or get at a sex service. He’s in his 50s.
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Is this supposed to be a question? It reads more like a personal opinion.
When asking a question, be clear about what you want to know.
Maybe you’re asking why she won’t let you give her oral sex, but even then, I think it’s foolish to ask a third party about someone else’s preferences.
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I don’t want someone to go down on me either.
The reason is that I have a hard time reaching orgasm, so I feel bad about it.
I’m also cautious about diseases, which may be another reason.
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