Question for the gentlemen:

I see each woman about once a month. Altogether, that works out to around two or three times a month. I don’t think that’s outside the average.

In my case, I see one person about 10 times a month, and we have sex three or four times.

It was about eight a month during the latter half of last year. There was a woman I clicked with unusually well and had a pretty good connection with, but there wasn’t enough intimacy. While treating her as my main partner, I balanced things out by putting together a group of transactional, intimacy-focused women—the “intimacy slot”—to make up for what was lacking. My main partner accounted for three or four meetings a month, almost every week; three intimacy-slot women met once a month each, for another three meetings; and I made zero or one new offer a month in search of someone who could change the situation. Since most of them were B-type, it took time to see any results. That brought the total to eight meetings. Personally, one good person I can see every week would be enough. So this year, I’ve given up on finding a main partner, kept only the intimacy slots, and set off on a fresh journey to find my bluebird. Taro

I’m Zuiki, one of the male members. You’re asking how many times per month on average, right? I’m seeing just one person, and we can only meet twice a month, so my answer is twice a month. However, the other day, when I managed to go twice on a single date, I felt amazing. Sorry my answer is way outside the average you were expecting. But it’s the truth.

According to what I’ve heard from soapland workers, it really varies from person to person. Apparently, some men can finish five times in 90 minutes. I’ve heard that from several different women, so it’s probably not all that unusual. Personally, it’s usually just once, regardless of who I’m with. Occasionally, a particularly skilled soapland worker gets me to finish twice, so I was thinking of requesting those women again the next time. Could “next time” possibly be a typo for “per month”? How much I like someone and how often I see her are separate matters. Depending on the woman, I usually go on dates and sleep with her an average of one to three times a month; personally, I see women about eight times a month. You casually ask what “number” a woman is, but every woman has different qualities, so it’s impossible to compare them all on the same scale. In most cases, I decide how often to meet after discussing how much money she wants each month and how much time she can devote to allowance-based dating, then setting a target. For example, if a woman wants 200,000 yen a month and can arrange her schedule for four meetings, we agree on that. If she has several papas and prefers just once a month, then we set it at once a month. Sometimes a woman will say that she has a lot of expenses coming up next month and ask me to increase the number of meetings this month.