Are there any papas or women who have managed to keep their relationships going long-distance after moving or going through a major life change?
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I currently have two arrangements that have lasted over two years, with regular meetings, and I’m wondering what would happen if we ended up living far apart.
I mean distances like Tokyo–Sendai or Tokyo–Osaka.
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I’ve always been careful about being recognized by people I know, so I haven’t really had many partners locally to begin with.
The woman I’ve been seeing locally is also wary of being recognized, which is why we’ve maintained a comfortable relationship for nearly two years.
If I were transferred, the only reason I’d come to Nagoya would be to see her, so the frequency would definitely decrease.
But if she were okay with that, I think I’d go see her whenever she wanted to get together after a long time apart.
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I do have a long-distance papa (a male supporter)!
When I first registered with the club, I was based outside the major cities, so most of my initial offers came from people who lived far away.
Some of those papas have stayed in touch with me ever since, and even after moving to the Tokyo area, I’ve received offers from people living as far away as Osaka!
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Since it isn’t a romantic relationship, distance probably doesn’t matter that much.
In fact, the distance could even help keep things going. You’re less likely to get bored, and even if you see each other less often, it probably won’t necessarily come to an end.
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I had a papa (a male supporter) who came from Kansai once a month and stayed overnight each time.
Just as Mac said, I think it really depends on the man. It may come down to whether you’re willing to travel for the allowance plus transportation costs, whether he’ll cover extra travel expenses, and whose circumstances are making it a long-distance arrangement.
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They’re more of a transactional relationship than a papa, but I do have a few people I meet only when I go back to my hometown.
I can only see them once a year, but about six of them are waiting for me back home. We only exchange messages like, “I’m coming back!” and “See you next year!” Still, it makes me happy that they wait for me.
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It’s not a move or a transfer, but the woman I’m dating will be away from where she currently lives for several months for training.
We’ve been seeing each other for five years, so I told her, “You don’t need to come visit while you’re away.”
But she keeps saying, “I’ll come back, I’ll come back…” and is being very proactive（笑）
You should also become more proactive and say, “I’ll come back, I’ll come back…” and “I’m coming, I’m coming!”（笑）
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At that kind of distance, I don’t think it would feel long-distance to a man with plenty of time and money.
After all, a regular arrangement with a favorite partner who lives farther away is better than a new offer from someone nearby.
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I know someone like that.
There are also couples who started out long-distance and have continued seeing each other, and I personally have someone I’m still seeing long-distance as well.
You may meet less often, but if you’re reasonably compatible, these arrangements often continue.
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