I think it’s totally fine.
Don’t you sometimes find it easier to be honest with someone you’re intimate with than with your boyfriend, younger sister, friends, or family? Like admitting what you really want to do, haha.
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Some people have met and married through a dating club.
But they’re a minority.
The reason is simple: these clubs are for people who are looking for relationships that involve an allowance.
Some men do try to pursue a relationship without an allowance, but I’ve never heard of one of them actually wanting to get married. If he’s saying the same thing to various women, then it probably just means he’s trying to avoid paying an allowance.
That said, both men and women may end up in a long-term relationship with someone they genuinely like.
So if, by chance, both people decide they’d be happy to get married, it could lead to marriage.
It would simply be a case of having happened to meet at a dating club.
Incidentally, quite a lot of people meet through dating apps and get married. These days, apps may be recognized as one legitimate way to meet someone.
With dating clubs, there isn’t quite the same variety of connections as on apps, so in principle, the relationship will involve an allowance.
Still, I do think there’s a small possibility.
But that would only be the eventual outcome.
Basically, dating clubs are places for relationships that involve an allowance.
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Wherever it happens, meeting someone you’ll marry is a pretty fateful encounter.
It doesn’t matter where you meet them.
On the other hand, no matter where you meet someone, it’s not easy to decide you want to marry them.
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There have actually been cases of people meeting through a dating club and eventually getting married.
But I’m sure those who made it as far as marriage don’t think of it as “I married a PJ” or “I married my papa.”
The dating club was simply how they met. They built a relationship of trust from there, and ultimately got married because their relationship had moved beyond papa-katsu.
As long as you still see the other person as a “PJ” or a “papa,” I don’t think they really fall into the category of a life partner, regardless of whether marriage is involved.
So, based on how I see it, since the other person is no longer a PJ by the time you decide to get married, my answer would probably be: “No, you can’t really call it marrying a PJ.”
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