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Jan 1, 2023 12:23
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I’ll be having my profile photos retaken soon. For the summer shoot, I wore a sleeveless top with a long skirt and received several offers. I usually dress in a similar style.
My figure is more of an hourglass shape.
Since this time’s shoot will be in winter, I’m worried that wearing the long-sleeved tops and long skirts I normally wear won’t appeal as much to men because there won’t be much skin showing.
Should I make a little more effort to show some skin? Or should I ignore the season altogether and wear a summer outfit instead?
I’d really appreciate your opinions.
7 answers
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Choose outfits that suit your own vibe while also appealing to the type of men you’re hoping to attract.
Personally, Fuu likes a refined, wholesome look: black hair, light makeup, and dresses. In winter, ribbed knits and other pieces in calm, understated colors work well.
Rather than showing a lot of skin, I prefer fitted clothes that highlight certain features. If they can get a good look at your waist, legs, butt, and chest, that can help lead to an offer.
Swimwear will make you stand out and probably increase the number of offers you receive. But unless you have the mental strength to handle lots of offers from very direct, sexually motivated papas, I wouldn’t recommend trying swimwear or overly revealing outfits.
I’ve only ever made one offer to a woman wearing swimwear. I was captivated by her figure. She said she’d received lots of offers, and from what she told me, it sounded like it had been quite a handful (lol).
I’m bragging a little, but I managed to stand out among all those papas and now get to regularly enjoy spending time with someone with an amazing figure.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I think fitted knitwear is ideal for winter.
The “virgin-killer sweater” that was popular a few years ago is probably an extreme version of this, but even without going that far, a fitted sweater will likely increase your chances of receiving offers. It’s highly effective without showing any skin.
> I imagine my figure as slim, curvy, and busty.
When it comes to what people find sexy, bottoms seem to rank first worldwide on average:
https://honkawa2.sakura.ne.jp/3995.html
In Japan, however, breasts are overwhelmingly considered the most attractive feature, so you may be at a slight disadvantage. That said, many men on Universe don’t care that much about breast size, so I wouldn’t worry too much.
A fitted sweater should work well, but if you’re concerned, a neat, feminine dress might also be a good choice regardless of the season.
Other
If your figure is your selling point, choose an outfit that shows it off to the fullest. You can look stylish while still dressing for the season—think a sleeveless turtleneck knit top or a knitted dress, for example.
Of course, your profile and personality matter, but I think your first photo is what gets people to click and read your profile, so it’s worth putting some effort into it.
That said, if the photo is overly sexy, you may start getting more offers from vulgar, sex-obsessed older men. Or you might create a mismatch by posting a provocative photo while listing yourself as a Type B. So when you retake your photos, I recommend thinking about your own individuality and the kind of men you want to attract.
Marika
👨 Male
Universe member
If the profile photo is cute, I don’t really pay much attention to what she’s wearing.
What do I look for in a profile?
I’m more interested in the profile itself than the profile photo.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Rather than overthinking everything or trying to learn more about papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), there’s nothing wrong with just being yourself and leaving it to chance.
In papa-katsu, the more knowledge and experience you have, the more some people may actually feel inclined to avoid you.
A lot of men aren’t looking for a veteran or an expert, either.
Other
Personally, rather than choosing women whose photos really “grabbed” me, I looked for women who seemed unlikely to look much different in person than they did in their photos. I even ruled out women who looked obviously too beautiful in their pictures as potential offers.
I was also drawn to women with lovely smiles.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve seen a profile photo of a woman posing topless with her hands covering her breasts. It looked interesting, so I considered making her an offer.
Do most men choose who to approach based on body shape? There are plenty of women with great figures, so I think trying to compete on that front is a poor strategy.
As for sex appeal, I doubt it can beat what you’d find at an escort service, so I’m not sure that’s the way to go either.
Personally, I think the best photos are the ones that convey a personality that makes you want to get to know the woman.
That’s just my opinion.