Tips Dec 27, 2022 16:52

A simple question: Why do people keep renewing their membership even after they already have someone they’re seeing?

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I’ve been renewing mine for several years too, hoping I might meet someone even better. But lately, I’ve started to realize that, regardless of the person, there isn’t actually all that much difference. Even if I were to break up with my current partner, I feel like I’d have plenty of options judging by how many offers I’ve made and received so far. So for those of you who still renew after several years, what’s your reason?
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 20s 👑 Universe female member
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いっつ・みぃ
いっつ・みぃ Male Send a reverse offer to this responder
Age: 50s 👨 Male Other
I think it’s simply easier to keep your membership than to go through the hassle of canceling and signing up again. The same goes for content-based subscription services. When the fee is only around ¥500 a month, people barely feel the cost, so retention rates tend to be high. I think Universe’s annual membership fee is also set at just the right price—male members don’t really feel like they’re being charged for it. It’s me.
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Even if I date a monthly arrangement partner, it may eventually end. So when it does, I’ll look for a new monthly partner.
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
In my case, I don’t think we’ll be parting ways anytime soon, so I could leave the club whenever I wanted. But having to go through another interview when I rejoin after we do part ways would be so embarrassing! The interviewer would see right through my ulterior motives… lol Ugh, I hate it lol I don’t make any offers either, but I still have points left, so at least it feels a little less wasteful having paid the annual membership fee.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Even from a man’s perspective, women can seem completely different depending on the person. Please try to really see the man you’re with as a person, rather than just viewing him as a source of money. As for me, things have calmed down for now. That said, I never know when I might part ways with someone, so I’m just keeping my membership renewed in preparation for that possibility. Since female members usually show their faces, many of them leave within a year. For male members, though, I think it takes about three years before things settle down. At least, that’s how it was for me.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m looking for new encounters and fresh excitement. I’m always seeing around six women at a time, with them coming and going. The women I’ve been seeing for two and a half years still have their own appeal, and our relationships have grown more comfortable over time. The women I met just a few months ago also have their own charms, along with new discoveries and different ways to have fun. Saying there isn’t much difference between them sounds rather boring, doesn’t it? I find each of the women I see interesting in her own way, with her own personality. I try not to make offers to women who seem lacking in individuality, and if I get that impression when we meet, I end things after the first meeting.
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One reason men renew even when they already have someone they’re seeing is that they simply enjoy browsing women’s profiles, whether or not they actually make an offer. I once considered renewing at the Standard level. The system seems to have changed now, but back then, even Standard men could view Black women’s profiles—you just had to pay an additional fee and upgrade to Black to make an offer. It was easy on the eyes, so to speak. As for why some men make new offers despite already seeing someone, I think it can be a kind of hunting instinct: wondering if there might be someone even better out there, or wanting to be involved with various beautiful women. Another type I think is surprisingly common is the man who thinks, “I’m in love with this woman, but this is a papa-katsu setting. If I focus exclusively on her, I’ll think about her constantly, and if she has another papa or a boyfriend, I won’t be able to keep my feelings at peace.” So he continues making new offers regularly as a way of spreading out his feelings. There are all kinds of reasons.
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
Any notion that people are all more or less the same will disappear once you go on a date with me.
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迷わない70代
パパ活歴11年目、回答者歴8年目の関西在住者。パパ活終活中(笑)
Age: 70 or older 👨 Male Former Universe member
I’m a dreamer in my 60s!
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