Tips Dec 17, 2022 18:41

I was deceived by a member here.

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We met through ordinary dating and started a relationship. Before getting married, I became suspicious of his behavior, so I looked into it and found that he had used this site. I will take the appropriate action. I’m not a member myself.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
You’re not even married yet—so what exactly were you deceived about? I couldn’t really understand from this post. Rich men can afford to have plenty of fun, but it’s not like he has a half-serious mistress, or is putting you in charge of running a shop or something. If he’s single and seeing women through a dating club on a transactional, money-for-company basis, I’d actually say he’s managing his risks well and is a pretty good catch, lol. Also, if you’re going to marry a successful or wealthy man, you need to be prepared for a certain amount of involvement with other women. There aren’t many successful men who are like saints—and men like that tend to be less attractive, so they may have a lower chance of becoming successful in the first place. Successful men naturally attract both men and women. If you don’t like that, then perhaps you should choose an ordinary man with fewer attractive qualities—someone more like a saint—as your marriage partner.
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Doesn’t it really matter who you date before getting married? Marika
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It would’ve been nice if you’d also said how you figured it out, lol.
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That sounds like a really unpleasant experience. Yes, I think you should take the appropriate action. However, the person who deceived you is the one responsible—not the club. More specifically, this has nothing to do with the Q&A site either. I understand how you feel, but I think you may be directing your frustration at the wrong place.
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I don’t even know whether you’re a man or a woman, but… Do you mean you met and started dating normally, then found out after looking into it because you were curious that they were registered with a dating club? I don’t think there’s much point in contacting the club and asking them to take appropriate action. Regardless of their gender, they chose to register themselves, so please discuss it with the person directly.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I think most male members of the club are gentlemen, but it’s also true that a few problematic people are among them. You may have simply happened to encounter one of those people. That’s all there is to it.
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