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Dec 17, 2022 07:53
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A question for the male respondents: Have you ever received an offer from a woman in her late 40s or older?
I recently saw Chisato Moritaka on TV and was amazed at how cute she still is despite being in her 50s. It got me wondering whether men who usually make offers to younger women might also consider making an offer to a cute woman in her 50s, someone like Moritaka.
I’d love to hear your thoughts on whether offers to women around 50 are a possibility or a no-go.
8 answers
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in my late 40s, and I tend to prefer people around 25–35. So I imagine that when I’m in my 60s, I’ll probably prefer people around 35–45.
That’s just speculation, of course. Sorry if I still happen to like 25–35-year-olds.
Naturally, good looks and a nice figure are prerequisites, though…
Other
If you used to be a member, you probably know this, but there are definitely men who aren’t interested in younger women, so Nana and I have our own appeal.
When you’re exactly their type, they’ll tell you that you’re cute or sexy even though you’re in your late forties—enough to make you feel embarrassed.
Of course, if you’re not their type at all, you won’t appeal to them in the slightest. To those men, we might just look like a creepy old man and old woman!!
But I’m perfectly happy as long as I’m liked by people who treat me well, so I don’t worry about it.
Marika
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Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
Questions like this come up from time to time.
And it’s not just at Universe—in Japan, women are often treated like “old hags” once they reach around 40. Personally, I find that really unfortunate. I don’t think it’s solely about age, but women who have gained maturity can be incredibly attractive! Of course, there are huge individual differences.
By the way, the oldest woman Joe has been involved with is 64. It’s not the nicest expression, but people say, “The closer it is to going bad, the better it tastes.” After sharing a bed with her the day before yesterday for the first time in six months, I found myself wondering whether she could ever actually go bad.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t intend to make offers to anyone older than me.
All the women I’ve dated so far have been younger, because fundamentally, I prefer younger women.
That said, once I’m in my sixties, I might find women in their forties appealing too.
Other
I’ve never made an offer to anyone in her late 40s, but I’ve met about three women in their early 40s.
That said, since I’d recently been touching the soft skin of cute women in their 20s, I couldn’t help noticing the difference in skin texture and other things, so none of those relationships continued.
Right now, I’m in the middle of an experiment, haha, to see how different it feels to be close with “a woman in her 20s after seriously dating her for years, when she reaches her 40s” versus “a woman in her 40s whom I’m meeting for the first time.”
Other
I’m not a male respondent, but…
Are you considering signing up again based on the opinions of the male respondents?!
You might as well just sign up again—there’s no need to overthink it. If you don’t register, you definitely won’t receive any offers, but if you do, you might get one someday.
There are women in their 40s and 50s who genuinely look much younger, as well as women who are cute or beautiful. Even if someone doesn’t fit that description, I believe they still have charms that younger women don’t.
So, to all the male members: I’m turning 37 soon myself, but every now and then, please consider making offers not only to young women, but also to women in their late 30s, 40s, and 50s.
Other
Since I get offers myself, I’m sure there are women in their late 40s and 50s who receive offers too.
With enough effort and care, you can do something about your appearance and your intimate tightness.
As for looks, I think women either come across as obvious older ladies or as women whose age is hard to tell—there’s really no middle ground.
👨 Male
Universe member
The oldest woman I’ve been with was in her mid-30s, but women these days can still be beautiful even at a relatively older age, can’t they?
There are actually women in their late 40s registered here, and some women over 40 receive high ratings, so I imagine they’re getting a fair number of offers as well.