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Dec 12, 2022 20:35
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We’d only met three times, but we messaged every day, and we were still telling each other we liked each other just two days before we ended things.
What was this papa trying to get out of it? He seemed like he wanted to see other people too, so when I said I understood, he replied, “Feel free to contact me anytime.” What does that even mean?
Isn’t it rude to hint that there are other women? I wouldn’t do that. I have another papa in a monthly arrangement, but I still wouldn’t feel good being told that he has someone else.
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👨 Male
Universe member
Well, since you’ve only met three times, I don’t think it’s a serious romantic attachment either.
You’re probably still at the stage of considering whether to start seeing each other or not.
> When he said he wanted to have fun with other people too, I said, “Okay, I understand,” but then he said, “Feel free to contact me anytime.” I don’t get it.
I think he wanted you to show more interest in him. But since you didn’t meet his expectations, he ended up saying, “Feel free to contact me anytime.”
Other
I put tartar sauce on fried white fish and add a little soy sauce lol. Mayo and soy sauce go well together lol. Sometimes I sprinkle bonito flakes and a little soy sauce on potato salad too.
Come to think of it, that wasn’t really an answer to the question lol.
As for the person who asked: it simply means nothing had started in the first place! Don’t sweat it! Since it never started, there’s nothing to end either lol. Just laugh it off and forget about it!
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Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
You don’t even know the answer to that? LOL
It’s jealousy. Jealousy.
It’s basically, “I want you all to myself! I’m getting jealous, sob.” And then you get to grin and think, “I’m so popular.” Though honestly, I think the questioner probably knows the answer—they just don’t want to do it.
I like nori bento. The side dishes are fried white fish, a croquette, and seaweed-battered fried chikuwa. It comes with tartar sauce and, for some reason, soy sauce. I don’t understand the soy sauce. Of course, I put the tartar sauce on the fried white fish. As for the soy sauce, I don’t like it, but I compromise and put it on the croquette.
Just think of it as the soy sauce that comes with a nori bento and compromise.
Edit:
I’m starting to think I may have been wrong. Maybe the soy sauce is meant for the rice in a nori bento. Then again, the rice already has bonito flakes and nori on it. Please tell me what you’re supposed to put the soy sauce on.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
It made me wonder whether they were both really serious about each other.
I can’t understand telling someone you love them after only meeting three times.
Even if their feelings were genuine, I think things can suddenly stop working out.
Her saying she wanted to see other people may have been an attempt to play games or test him.
I talk about my other partners, and my partners tell me about their other papas too. Hearing about another papa just makes me think, “Oh, this is getting interesting.”
And yes, I do like my partners—as partners in compensated dating. I don’t think this kind of arrangement can continue unless you genuinely like the person in that context.