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Dec 12, 2022 19:58
I’m struggling with harassment.
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What should I do?
Whenever I try to leave him, he prevents me from doing so. Here’s what he does:
- He insults me through seemingly innocent examples that only I would understand.
- He insults me in a foreign language to his friends while I’m right there.
- Things that feel like gaslighting.
- He tries to find out what I’m thinking through my friends.
- He uses other people to convey what he wants to say, but denies it when I ask him directly.
- He monitors my social media.
- If I respond with a smile, brush him off, or continue ignoring him, it escalates.
- He seems happy when I’m upset, but he doesn’t stop.
I don’t think this is just his way of expressing affection.
Whenever I try to break up with him, he starts talking about whether or not he’ll give me an apartment. If I refuse, he gets angry, the conversation goes nowhere, and then the harassment starts again.
I have plenty of flaws, but it doesn’t seem like he’s saying I’d be loved if only I fixed them.
Should I just keep running away from him?
