I’ve made offers to about five women and plan to continue, but as my social circle has suddenly expanded—including women I also see privately—I keep mixing up their names and calling them the wrong one, especially after I’ve been drinking.
How do you all deal with this? Any tips?
The other day, I resorted to writing their names on my palm with a permanent marker ＞＜
I know getting a woman’s name wrong is incredibly rude...
(Though writing it on my palm with a marker isn’t exactly respectful either.)
Sorry for the silly question...
Of the five, one disappeared after being involved in a ○○○ scam, two ran into trouble—one of which even involved the club staff (I’m very sorry, and thank you so much for your help)—and the other two said they wanted to focus exclusively on me, then took a break and eventually left the club.
I’ve realized that women really are all so different.
For about ten years, I had been mourning and focused on raising my children, but this experience reminded me how much fun it is to meet women, feel down sometimes, and laugh together.
The best part has been that I’ve become more conscious of improving myself.
I’m really glad I joined.
The latter half wasn’t a question, but I’d like to express my gratitude to the club and all of its staff.
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I keep notes in a fingerprint-locked memo app on my phone for each woman in my monthly arrangements—her name, what we talked about before, her likes, hobbies, and so on. I look them over before meeting her.
From the time I start traveling to meet one of my regulars until we say goodbye, I focus only on her. What should we talk about? What kind of sexy outfit should I have her wear so I can admire her? How should I lead things toward an adult relationship? If you think about things like that, you won’t mix anyone up, haha.
Since your brain seems to be getting a little rusty, concentrate on your fantasies beforehand and repeat her name to yourself several times.
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This is Takei from the staff.
Thank you very much for your kind words.
We hope you’ll feel free to contact us whenever you’re ready to use our services again.
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I don’t think type scams or other problems really happen at clubs—normally, anyway.
Even men who are doing well often misunderstand things, so if it turns into a problem—to the point that you feel you’ve been misled about her type—it probably just means the questioner is the only one who’s satisfied.
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Does the questioner not have a wife?
If you have a poor memory and aren’t very sharp, your wife will catch on. It’s fine if you can go out without lying, but she might say, “Wait, didn’t you say you were going out with someone from work that day?” and so on.
You should practice a little—for your own sake, as well as for your partner’s and your wife’s.
If you’re not married, then I suppose you’ll just have to make your own mistakes and deal with the awkwardness.
Marika
When you said you were in mourning, did you mean your wife passed away?
If you’re single, I guess you can get away with being a little careless.
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Mixing up their names when there are only five of them?
No way!
You should be able to remember them without even trying. Try saying each woman’s name out loud while picturing her face.
If you really can’t remember, use your head.
Only make offers to women who all have the same name, or give everyone the same nickname.
If you go that far, there’s no way you’ll ever call someone by the wrong name, lol.
It’s me
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In my case, I take my time reviewing profiles before making an offer, so I’ve never gotten someone’s name wrong.
Besides, I don’t really call them by name in the first place.
Maybe you could simply avoid using their name as well.
Two out of five people causing problems is a remarkably high rate. The supposed ○○○ scam by one person might just be your own assumption, too.
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